I have recently recovered from a 36 year chronic illness, which was mis-diagnosed for all those years. During those 36 years I suffered from chronic mental health symptoms as well as physical symptoms. It was a thyroid disorder; the thyroid gland affects every cell and organ in your body, including the brain.
I already knew my ex-husband (my son’s father) was a psycho and divorced him many years ago. Over 17 years of being together, he managed to mentally and emotionally abuse me, then during the divorce to financially abuse me. I have moved on from that.
However now that my brain is (apparently) in full working mode, I have fully realised that my only child is definitely a psycho also, like his dad.
Today, I once again asked my son to repay the £600 I lent him in July 2017, whilst he was in Italy sunning himself. I had paid off four of his debts to keep even more bailiffs off his back. I knew when I did it I was being stupid but was still suffering from agoraphobia, severe depression, etc. I have sent him emails & texts requesting that money back; not nasty phone calls. He has phoned me this afternoon and been utterly revolting and verbally abusive; saying he doesn’t know his mother any more. Yes, I used to cower down & not ask for money back. He obviously does not like a mother who stands up for herself. I guess I always knew inside of me that my son was bad news. But now I definitely know.
Do I cut off completely from him? He has a son (my only grandchild) who I know I would not be allowed to see.