My recent 9yr old, is killing me slowly. Quick cap divorced for 4yrs. My youngest son of 3 lives with me. I am plagued by deppression but always tried my best by my son. Well l have the school, caf and the educational board supporting my son and l. He refuses to go to school on day's that he doesn't feel like it. He has one more year before high school. He is horrible to me and have used the advice from all these professionals. To do the boundary thing and rules. It's getting worse, when my son was young l could handle it and carry him to school. Now his, not only got a nasty tongue, but has been physical and attempted to punch me last night. Please help!. When I suggested that my son needs professional help the said he would not qualify because, when he does go to school, his very well behaved. So the issue is at home?!, my son bangs on walls and has broken household items and regularly verbally abuses me and now getting physical with me. I have told them this is not normal and they said if l wanted him assessed l have to do the triple P and because his behaviour in school is good they don't think his got problems. Recently they've been asking if my mental health has been ok, told them of course not!, l have to argue and listen to my son call me names not bad language, but his a clever boy and it hurts. Told his dad that I'm fed up and maybe he should move in with him. Sorry divorced 3 boy's and the youngest is going to kill me by heart break!.