I was convinced Iโd not sleep, but miraculously did... and a deep-plush one at that, only ended at sunrise by a cat that found the perfect spot to compress my bladder. ๐๐ผ Yesterday, Iโd been thinking about my hydration, so you can imagine.
But M was like a grumpy bear emerging from hibernation, complaining of unpleasant stomach feelings. He suggested delaying a day (oh, no! Iโve made a public commitment about today! Accountability crisis! and Buddhagal snuck in her graduation run a day earlier than expected! Friendly-competitive crisis! Potential crisis for Buddagalโs non-stop 48-hour+ party ๐ง What to do?). I suggested he delayed a day and I go ahead (we are perfectly capable of solitary runs). M decided he should have a coffee to see if he perked up. I agreed to wait and took the opportunity to extend my warm-up and experiment properly with a foam roller ๐ฌ๐๐คช๐๐ฑ. Suitably perked up and reassured that he could always change his mind (M) and perfectly primed (me), off we went. It was not long after 9.00. I took a leap of faith and chose - wait for it - the most happiest smiley on the app. Indeed, I did! I donโt do things like that. Iโm still reeling from the sheer audacity.
As we reached the park and the end of the walking section, M got in quick and declared โanti-clockwiseโ. Iโd been out-manoeuvred there. Heโs usually so busy espousing on the news of the day, that I get to take that decision. In my vision for my graduation run, I had imagined clockwise (the less common choice) to mark the special occasion - but if this would help M, then so be it. I relented with a (gracious and generous) smile on my face. (Weird world when so much hangs on such a tiny decision, though.)
From forecasts, Iโd also imagined rain. Instead, it was dry. These were the coldest conditions in which weโve run and I did secretly worry that Mโs asthma might suffer. (It didnโt.)
The park was just so beautiful today. It was cloudy, not blankly clouded, but with interesting formations - mostly horizontal, flat forms, with some patches of mackerel - and a drop-dead gorgeous milky sun holding its own. The air was sharp and the mood almost crepuscular, with a glow emanating beneath the cloud cover. Where it hit certain objects, they answered back: the cladding on a new-build glowed; the roof of a passing train created curved swords of blinding brilliance as it disappeared into the distance. I was mesmerised by one guyโs blush-coloured hoody, which also responded well. More plastic bags and deflated balloons stuck in the tree tops were highlighted and sparkled.
Today seemed quiet (for a London park). I was especially conscious of sound: of more birds (blackbird, magpies, crows, tits); the languages being spoken by other park users; a refuse lorry reversing; the burring of the railway; but also, it seemed to me, of more air traffic than of late.
๐๐ฆฎ๐ฉ๐โ๐ฆบ๐พ๐ถ I thought a bit about the dogs. Today, the majority were short-legged for some bizarre reason. They can make me laugh with their antics. One - long-legged and long-haired, greyhound-like, ginger coat, floppy ears - was acrobatically chasing the crows. Boy, could that beast bound, leap high arabesques and twist mid-air. Like a floppy ballerina. The canny crows seemed to be teasing, always just out of reach.
I barely thought about the physicality of running. Occasionally, I checked in with M to ensure all was well (it was); I channeled Laura now and then. I gave a bit of attention to my body: how am I striding; how am I landing; am I lifting out of my hips; is my head up; are my shoulders relaxed; and (a good yoga favourite) is my tongue at ease. (You have no idea about relaxing muscles until you do the tongue!) But Iโd say these moments were swift and positive. It was just a fantastic run. ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ชโ๏ธ๐๐ผ๐ซโจ
I confess, I donโt get the mindset that spray-paints a tree - and does so with the words โLove Lifeโ and โBe Happyโ. ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ But I can see thereโs something joyful about this odd urban gesture, so itโs my first photo.
๐๐๐To all of you: Thanks a million for all your incredible support and advice; for the humour, jokes and piss-taking; for the tales of your runs and honest sharing of feelings; for the words and the photos; for indulging my posts; and for the lived fantasy that even us minnows of the running world can find a ๐ฆinside our ๐ ๐ข๐ฆฅ!!! ๐๐๐
โ๐ช๐ผTo the new starters: You can do it! I did it. M did it. We never imagined we could. Weโre in our 60s. We have our gips, arthritic joints, and the pains of aging. Given how we felt in the early weeks, we are aghast that we are now able to run for 30 minutes. It was all just the result of curiosity one day in early September that got us started. And we could never have imagined the impact on us, both physically and mentally. Remember: Itโs not a race; itโs a personal journey. Niko-niko. Slowly. (I try to take 2 days rest at least.) Itโs not just exercise; it can feel life-transforming. โ๐ช๐ผ
๐ฝ PS M has just ordered a proper celebration dinner for tonight, simultaneously helping a lovely local restaurant to stay afloat during lockdown. He knows this is special! ๐ฝ
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Many congratulations, fellow runner, on your graduation!! ๐๐๐๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐๐ฅณ๐
Great post from you! Love to read your observations. You and M should be super proud and Iโm glad to hear that you are celebrating in style. Itโs a fantastic achievement ๐๐
Well done, both of you, and as always, a brilliant post, i even forgot you were actualy running at one point, makes a nice change from lots of stats, etc, about the run, of which i'm sometimes guilty! ๐คฃ enjoy your special meal later, and i guess the journey, carries on!!! ๐๐๐๐๐ฅณ๐ฅณ๐๐๐บ๐บ๐ฅ๐ฅ
It does, indeed. Weโre already planning the next run.
Iโm becoming increasingly stat-curious, I admit, but decided to put off trialling runkeeper until post-graduation. (Bit unusual, I realise.) So the first CR will be the marker.
Thanks, as ever, for your kind words. I can hear your shouts of support and encouragement all the way from the HP studios!!
Big congratulations fellow graduate, it'salways extra pleasing to hear other 60 somethings are running from the sofa to a new lease of life. I'm with you all the way! ๐ x
Thank you so much. Itโs unbelievable, really. A couple of months ago, M was fully morphed with the ๐ On our cool-down walk today, he asked โwhenโs the next run?โ!!
Huge congratulations to you both. Sounds like a beautiful day for it as well. It's truly unbelievable when you look back at the early weeks and then, as if by magic, you're comfortably running for 30 mins.
Wahey....whoop whoop and more whoops....YES YES YES... fantastic congratulations...what an awesome achievement hey๐๐๐๐๐ช๐ช๐ช๐๐๐. No doubt in my mind that you'd become a GRADUATE today๐๐๐๐คธ๐คธ. What a post....lurvin, lurvin lurvin it ๐๐๐. You are one extraordinaire story teller. And I just love your inner running dialogue...yes that's me too๐คฃ๐, ...it's pretty good psychological positivity. Well.....I'm glad I spurred you on๐๐คฃ๐๐คฃ....just didn't want you to miss the party.....it's still going. It's my anniversary today , 4 years with my online "find" โค๏ธ๐๐คฃ. He was my running partner but flew past me weeks ago โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ....5k in 29 mins now! I've no intention of attempting to compete with him....i like floating along ๐๐คฃ....no choice! Well .... absolutely fabulous news....on your victory....You're a winner....Really thrilled for you. Enjoy your celebration dinner & me n his nibs (another Hussein Bolt in the making. ..tsk tsk tsk) will be enjoying ours alongside you in Malvern. From one ๐๐ข.. ๐ฆ............All the very best๐๐๐
Hey there, BG!!! My (same-stage) virtual running partner IS HERE!! ๐โโ๏ธ๐๐ผ PARTY!!!๐๐ ๐พ
Done it! We so did it! We survived the doubts and glitches, found our own crazy jag, and crossed the (not the) finishing line!๐ค๐ค๐ค๐ Yeah! Whop! Whoop! ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ป๐คธโโ๏ธ๐คธ๐คธโโ๏ธ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ป๐ชโ๏ธ
Put on the music!! Hit the dance floor! (= โcross-trainingโ)
๐ถYa-hoo!๐ถ
๐ถCe-le-brate good times, come on!๐ถ
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๐ถA celebration to last throughout the years๐ถ
So lurvin this....Kool and the Gang ๐ถ๐ต๐ถ๐ต๐ถ๐ต.....onwards & onwards ๐๐๐๐๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐๐๐
Good morning GailX๐๐๐ต๐ถ๐ต๐ถ. Hope you enjoyed your celebrations last night. Well...I had a busy absolutely non exercise day yesterday...not even yoga! I guess it's allowed๐๐คฃ....Having woken up with a slightly dehydrated celebratory anniversary/Graduation Prosecco๐พ head...my first intention is to rapidly increase my fluid intake...๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฐ Water only!!!CR1 is scheduled for tomorrow.... By which time I will be rehydrated, re Yoga'd, and re-hip exercised...and ready for the next stage of my running infancy journey......consolidating all the hard work and effort of the last few months. Have a wonderful day.....When's your CR1? ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐๐ข๐๐
Sounds like you had a couple of blow out evenings! Fully deserved.
Not wanting to get yogic-competitive (naturally... it would so un-yogic) but Iโve just been to my zoom iyengar. And I have gone totally mad and also signed up for the class (soon to start) on pranayama and meditation. Iโll be floating by 17.00.
CR1 scheduled for Monday. Have a good session tomorrow- and looking forward to hearing how it went.
Well...you go girl....you'll have transcended everything by Mondays run, Madame Yogi GailX. Sounds fabulous. That sounds great doing classes with other people, I just do yoga following YouTube by myself. Well...I'm fully hydrated now and my limbs have been exercised and are ready for tomorrow's CR1. Hope I have another good run tomorrow, no reason why I shouldn't, keeping that positivity high on my list๐. Happy floating....๐๐๐๐โโ๏ธ๐๐ข๐
Fantastic write up Gail ๐ and congratulations to both you and M for graduating ๐๐๐Enjoy your well earned meal this evening and keep posting ๐๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ
Wahoo- sheโs only gone and done it!!!! ๐Big, big, big congratulations- youโve done amazing!!!! Another gazelle past the post ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ Youโve kept us going with your positive posts and comments over the weeks- you fully deserve your graduation moment- enjoy!!! ๐๐๐ C xxx
Woohoo! Congrats on your grad run and well done, you did it ๐ช๐ผ๐ฅ๐ซ๐ธ๐ And sounds like you totally gazelle-d it too!!! Itโs a great feeling isnโt it? All that hard work paid off and you got there. Officially now a runner ๐โโ๏ธ Hope you have enjoyed an evening of celebration and I look forward to seeing your consolidation run journey now youโre in the CR club!!
Fantastic effort Gail, it feels especially good as we get older doesnโt it? Enjoy your celebration dinner you thoroughly deserve it. Welcome to the graduate club. 10k next ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ
Thank you, MoliJ. Youโre right, age gives the whole achievement additional โก๏ธ โก๏ธ
I initially thought that weโre the oldest runners in the park, but over time Iโm spotting others of similar years. Once we stopped imagining the cool young ones were laughing at our niko niko pace and vintage Ron Hills, we relaxed. (They werenโt, of course. If they thought anything, it was likely the opposite.)
(I think weโll be focusing on 5k first. The truth of our actual distance currently will be discovered on the first CR on Monday- if I manage to use the technology- where Iโll trial Runkeeper. Weโre totally stat-naive right now. I very much doubt weโre even close to 3.5k!!)
It doesnโt matter how far you run the fact is at 60 you are running and that feels amazing. I too run in ronhills ๐ Birds of a feather ๐๐๐๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ
Well done, you did it. Congratulations to you and M and hope you enjoyed your well deserved celebratory meal. Keep on running, keep on posting ๐ฅณ๐๐๐ผโโ๏ธ
I did, we did! Still reeling at the thought. And my thanks for your incredible inspiration and support, LM. Letโs all keep on keepinโ on! ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐๐ฟโโ๏ธ๐๐ป๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ
What a super read, so descriptive I felt I was only a couple of strides behind you ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ Congratulations ๐๐ and yes it is quite transformational ๐
The Sixty Somethings are in the ascendency ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ข๐
Aw, thatโs so nice of you.โบ๏ธ๐Thank you, RitS!
And isnโt that 60s thing a real thing? Whoโd ever have thought that, at this age, we could be achieving new things with running. Running! I mean, I was all one for trying new things and keeping the mind fresh, but that I can do this with something as physically demanding as running is just amazing. And then to find how much it impacts on both the body and the mind... Blows me away (along)!! ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ
I cannot imagine our mothers getting into running at 60+
It sometimes crosses my mind that we tell our children that to get better they have to โjust practiseโ . As adults we forget that ๐
In terms of running and all exercise these days, my mantra is โfind something you enjoy ( half the battle) and practise , then get better at it.
Donโt care if itโs slowly, only that in small moments it crosses my mind that...... โ that was better ! โ ๐ค๐๐๐ปโโ๏ธ
I feel Iโm old enough now not to worry about giving things up that โarenโt really meโ or I donโt enjoy and not feeling guilty , or feeling anything about it at all really ๐๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
I only started C25K because I found an exercise channel in lockdown that I liked and in between exercises I was required to do 30 secs of walking or jogging ( around the kitchen table as it happens ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ)
so I then thought well, ๐ค maybe ๐ค๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ
I doubt I would have tried it otherwise, too busy saying โno I donโt like running , canโt run to save myselfโ ๐
Who knew indeed ! Thereโs a lesson there ๐๐
Haha! So similar! I skipped the kitchen table stage though!๐คฃ๐
I think the idea had first crossed my mind eighteen months ago, as I chatted to a younger colleague whoโd done c25k. But I got waylaid by the technical side, yโknow: apps, smartphones, earphones... the need for special pockets/ belts... it all got a bit much (bit of a senior moment that!) Then a health check underscored how little cardio I was actually doing, so I discovered Active 10 on nhs website. I managed to download it (I did!) went out to experiment, and by the end of the same afternoon had also figured out and tested c25k app and done w1r1. That was my โMaybeโ ๐คmoment.
I started off by tucking my phone into the top of my knickers, and then, realising this wasnโt going to work (and that I looked like I was about to have an attack of appendicitis) dug out of deep storage an old travel money belt and my ancient RHs. (Still using both!)
I progressed to my first experience with a discussion forum, something Iโd long sneered at from afar (like running, โnot for meโ). I gather from what others say that c25k is better than most other discussion boards, but Iโve still had to rethink โmyselfโ quite a bit!!! I can run, I enjoy it; I can use social media, and enjoy it. So weโre having a bit of a โwho am I?โ moment too. ๐๐๐คฃ Great fun!
Excellent ! ๐ I think itโs really important to keep challenging ourselves a bit, although the technology exasperates me at times ๐ฅด๐
The phone/knickers thing resonates, I have a little pocket in my leggings at the side of my knee but the weight of the phone kept pulling the leggings down so I was doing a lopsided run trying to hoist them up .
Tried the knicker storage , didnโt work either and soooo not a good look trying to retrieve ๐๐คฃ๐ฑ
There are still days when the tech/glitches stuff is harder than the run ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
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