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It's now four days since my last run. House/estate agent issues, phone issues, and now uploading my entire photo library (some of them huge files) to Amazon Prime cloud - on the third day of that so far - have kept me housebound. I was going to go for a run this morning, but next door's roofers needed access to our garden, then didn't turn up till just now. Tomorrow I have to spend the entire day cleaning the house as it goes live on the market Friday.

The problem with this is that I'm losing motivation. I find it hard to motivate myself to be active at the best of times, being a couch potato by nature, and perfectly content to doss around all day reading or playing with my apps. Every run is a bit of a gremlin battle field thanks to that, but usually I manage to pitch myself in, like jumping into the swimming pool - a big shock that lasts 10 seconds. However, enthusiasm is a large part of motivation for me and I'm not a person who can focus intensely on more than one thing at a time. I'm scared of sliding back into gluttony and sloth.

So do I take this week off and risk indolence claiming me once more, or do I force myself to fondle my lycra and get out the door Friday (bearing in mind Thursday I have to mega clean)?

I await with eagerness your ingenious responses ;)

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Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Graduate10

Flick this is not like you! Get yourself out tonight or in the morning! At least for a 4K 💪🏽 you’ll feel great after 👌🏽

in reply toTasha99

Thanks Tasha. I'm afraid i do lose motivation if I dont do something for a while :( I cant run tomorrow as I will be knackered doing that and the house clean. I will try for tonight x

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Graduate10 in reply to

Do it do it do it 😂 I was the same last week. A run will get you back on track. Don’t let the gremlins win!

in reply toTasha99

Thank you, that’s the kick up the backside I need 😊🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️

MikeJones68 profile image
MikeJones68Graduate10

Oh dear, it sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now! I know how it feels to lose enthusiasm the longer you leave it between runs. I forced myself to run on holiday last week, and I'm glad I did. I got to see things that I'd have missed otherwise.

Maybe you should run around the house with a duster...............

in reply toMikeJones68

LOL, I wasn't going to go as far as dusting. do you think I should?

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Pippayoungart

I reckon you need to get out there! Fondle the lycra. Sounds like you’ve been sucked into a technological abyss! Selling a house can be horribly stressful so you’ll need the benefits of running to deal with it all!

in reply toPippayoungart

well said that woman! x

in reply toPippayoungart

though i actually enjoy the technology, but it does rather take over

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Pm3eakGraduate10

I haven't run for several weeks now since my knee collided with my 8.5 stone dog while said dog was travelling at an impressive rate of knots.

The dog won.

Well, it was my own fault for starting the game we were playing at the time: next time I will choose chess, I think I might just have the edge there.

I was very worried at first but am now pretty sure that the healing is going well and that I will be able to recommence running at some point in the near future. In the meantime I am restricted to a bit of crown-green bowling and walking...plus physio of course. Life is exciting on Poverty Bank.

I too asked myself the same question: will I be able to motivate myself to start again, a long way back from the place I was at? The strategy I have adopted -or rather, am trying to adopt-is to put it out of my mind, not compare my current activitity with what was and, above all, not to feel anxious. At the same time I have attempted to parcel up my running related enthusiasm and determination, wrap it in a pretty ribbon and store it in the little birdbox in my head, to be collected when my knee is recovered.

I wonder if there will be enough resolution stored up there among the feathers and bird poo to keep me going when the pain, shortness of breath and doubt kick in after the first few hundred metres?

We shall see.

In the meantime I will play bowls and await a big fleet of Spanish ships.

Ouch! I wondered why we hadn’t heard from you! My partner Mic had his leg broken by a huge German herding dog - actually looked a lot like your dogs - it was playing with our collie x, they were both pups at the time. Mic got between the dogs because he was worried about ours, and the other dog ran into his leg.

Well, you’ve put my problem in perspective - though, curiously, you may find it easier to return after a long break as you will have renewed enthusiasm.

Not sure about the Spanish ships now - I think we did that one in 1500 and something 😂

Am wishing you rapid healing x

Don’t wait for motivation. Just go. No choice. No debate.

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I'll give that a go :)

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Sadie-runsGraduate10

Well. I would say that if you find taking a break from running lessens your motivation and enthusiasm, then get out there quick-sharp! However, I have found in the past taking a week out is really good for me. My legs get a good old rest, and I even find myself running better after a week off.

In short, if you are not getting out because of indolence, then just force yourself out there. But if it is genuinely because you have a lot of other stuff going on, don't beat yourself up for just taking a week out…

xxx

in reply toSadie-runs

a bit of both I think - I will definitely go Friday ... perhaps ... xxx

Sarakc profile image
SarakcGraduate10

Hi! If I were you I’d go fondle that lovely lycra and go for a wee run. You’ll probably feel better for it and be able to concentrate on your “dusting” tomorrow 😉

Are you moving far? I know how stressful it is moving house as we’ve done it so many times!!

I went swimming this morning and now I’m ready for my afternoon nap!!!! 😀

in reply toSarakc

Only back to Oxford. I always ay never again when i move. Only been here just under two years :(

Dusting? Pah!

orangeguy profile image
orangeguyGraduate10

My advice is to leave it until you have got all the other stuff out the way, a week is not going to hurt. You will probably also have better and more enjoyable run when you are not stressed thinking about all things you have to do . . . just my two pennies worth :)

in reply toorangeguy

LOL, that will be weeks - I really am torn between the get out there you lazy sloth advice and the doss around and then get out there you lazy sloth advice ;)

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Jay66UKGraduate10

Instead of spending the whole day cleaning you could get up early, fondle the Lycra (Austin Powers voice: oh, behave!), run, be back and energised to clean even more productively than without the run.

And frankly you know you won’t get everything cleaned as much as you want, so you’ll need to do some the next day as well.

in reply toJay66UK

haha - unfortunately at my age it's a run or cleaning (who was it said that about getting up the stairs or sex but not both? some film or book). Cant do it Friday in case I have thousands of eager purchasers beating a path to my door - I wish!

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Jay66UKGraduate10 in reply to

And, lo, the bungalow was invented. And it was good.

in reply toJay66UK

Nooooo ... up to two years ago, when we moved, I was going up to bed via a loft ladder 😊

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WizziewoodGraduate10

Concentrate on house cleaning tomorrow. Last thing before you get into bed look at your wonderful collection of Lycra and choose an outfit for Friday morning.

First thing Friday get you gear on and off you go. Don't worry about speed or distance just get those legs running.

Now how to deal with the gremlins ... pack them in a box, tell them they need to be packed for when you move and then hide them in a dark cupboard or put them in the bin!

Seriously though Flick, get out there on Friday and enjoy a bit of 'me time' after your busy day cleaning, you'll deserve it.

in reply toWizziewood

Thank you dearest, that is sound advice xxx

Lorijay profile image
LorijayGraduate10

Flick, fondle the lycra and go. You have some beautiful lycra give it an airing. You'll have a big smile afterwards :) :)

in reply toLorijay

You are right xxx

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Graduate10 in reply to

Did you go?

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LorijayGraduate10 in reply toTasha99

HI Tash, sorry to hijack you but I read a post awhile back of yours about inside knee pain. I have this on my left knee the area of pain is only bout an inch alongside the knee, is this similar to what you had. Worse on walking after the run not during it. Just seeking some advice. Thanks :)

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Tasha99Graduate10 in reply toLorijay

Hi Lorijay! I just iced mine, tried to elevate it (I don’t think either helped), used a knee sleeve (also don’t think it helped) and took ibuprofen an hour before running. After a week or so the pain went. Happened with both knees one week after the other! Apparently it’s just strength needed in the thighs. I have a physio and a running pal at work and both thought it fine to carry on running. Careful though. It’s a risk I took.

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LorijayGraduate10 in reply toTasha99

Thanks Tash, that's really helpful. :)

in reply toTasha99

Erm ...

Lorijay profile image
LorijayGraduate10 in reply to

Sorry Flick...:) Have you been running?

in reply toLorijay

Erm ... nope ...

Lorijay profile image
LorijayGraduate10 in reply to

Erm, have you got your running gear ready to run?? :)

in reply toLorijay

ah ... possibly .. but probably not ;(

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LorijayGraduate10 in reply to

lol..lol..come on Flick those beautiful peacock leggings, show them off :)

in reply toLorijay

Well here I am, 4.45M and feeling 'orrible. very very tired, grey and wt outside. i will see how I feel when ive eaten

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Graduate10 in reply to

Get yourself out! You’ll feel better. You can always nap later 👌🏽

in reply toTasha99

Ah, youth - I couldn't run feeling like this. i've had not enough sleep for a week now. I no longer have the resilience to run when knackered. I mean, most people my age are tottering past on a zimmer frame (I know because they overtake me uphill when I'm running ;) ) I will run tomorrow. TedG has been telling me to take more rest at my age, so for once i think it would be sensible. It will be five days then, not the end of the world. If I still haven't run tomorrow, come and beat me round the head and shout rude words at me. and thank you for the support, much appreciated x

in reply toTasha99

PS: no chance of a nap today, house clean from top to bottom. We have two large dogs and two cats, all of whom are shedding hair, and the house will be on the market this weekend.

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Razouski

Make yourself a new playlist and get out there and run. I made a new playlist on Monday, and when I was reluctant to run yesterday my other half reminded me that I was looking forward to some new tracks and I was out of bed and ready to go in no time. I posted in C25K, and it was Shrek who got me running. You're welcome to use my suggested playlist if it might help.

healthunlocked.com/couchto5...

Now get yourself ready for an energising run. :-)

Ah, I don’t run to music ... but I intend to go Friday whatever 😇

Oldfloss profile image
OldflossAdministratorGraduate10

Flick...Enough...!!!

Just run on Friday... however far, however fast... or slow..just blinking well get out there!

PS

Make sure you blooming well RUN too... not JOG!!!!!

Love

Floss xx

in reply toOldfloss

haha, love the run not jog bit. Love back at ya xx

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Sandraj39Graduate10

Friday it is! Go run, be awesome in your Lycra and feel the glow afterwards! 🙂x

in reply toSandraj39

and my new mauve and lime green shock absorber running bra - don't forget that ;) x

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petrometro

1. Delegate the megaclean to the pros who actually like doing that. £100 well spent! 4 days is too short for the body to have lost the habit/memory of your previous runs. start slowly and within 5 minutes you will be back in the groove. You will also get a "seratonin- dopamine" high, which is a natural feeling of well being. Enjoy! If you are uploading to the cloud you can walk away from the computer to do other things you know!!

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Flippin eck, i dont even take taxis let alone pay for cleaning. i know I've been extravagant with lycra, but i have to go without other stuff to afford it. Anyway, no point paying for cleaning when it will need doing again in two days time. you have no idea how much dirt and mess my animals create. They're all moulting, and the cats chuck wood chip cat litter over the bathroom floor. And as for Mr I Dont snore, he makes more mess than the other four animals put together :(

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johnm12Graduate10

Ingenious responses??? I think you know that it's the same for most of us.

The only answer I have found is to get my kit on and then get out of the door.

Some time later I usually return feeling great. You know it makes sense!!!

in reply tojohnm12

It's not that simple is it. I'm suffering sleep deprivation and have had a lot on. really what I need to know is if it's wise to push when I'm depleted or risk losing motivation by resting. We're not talking weeks here, it will be less than a week if I run tomorrow :)

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Razouski in reply to

I guess Hidden you've just got to do what works for you. A week or so off running may reinvigorate you, and when you're ready to run it will be so much better.

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johnm12Graduate10 in reply to

Apologies. I hadn't appreciated it. A day or two off won't really matter. Then the inner voice will go "I quite fancy a gentle run, just a short one mind" and you will be off again. Good luck with the house sale, these are tough things to get through but getting enough sleep is really important. Take care.

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