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What's your pet hate at Christmas time?

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Anything at all, it may be something you really don't like or something that is said to you.

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My pet hate at the moment is, people saying 'Are your family visiting Christmas'? no they can't!

Chloe

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I don`t mind ice cold weather mist fog anything even wind but hate heavy rain as I always walk down the graveyard Christmas morning.

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Good morning ken well I hope that if it does rain when you go a big rainbow will appear and then I'm sure you will be glad of the rain I often think that when it rains there hope of a 🌈next time I'll turn phone round take full rainbow I'm going to print this and fraime it with my house been inside the 🌈 just to the right click to see full,all safe inside the rainbow 😊

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Caza

morning Chloe. Shops —manic, christmas songs should only be played Xmas week definitely not in November—like you—people asking what you doing for Christmas got the family coming NO. Christmas TV unless it’s Only Fools & Horses. I’m a miserable ***!!

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Good morning Chloe,caza I'm.same as you, and please no more Christmas carol Scrooge film b and w repeats mam insists on watching it, I hate people saying are you all ready for Xmas, I'm like what do you mean it's just 2 days a dinner with mam we don't buy presents now just a little something to open for each other and my cat, I put my optic fibre tree up as the Twinklys cheer me up, 🤗✨🌟Chloe I'm sorry you can't have family around we stay on our own due to COVID risk

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Morning Hidden

Ooh, you’re so right, what a fuss! I sound like Scrooge 🤨sorry.

It is just another dinner yet we go way over the top every year,

Sounds like you’ll be having a nice cosy day with your Mam, lovely x

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Morning Chloe yes it's always apprehensive Xmas with my step dad dying boxing day many years ago now and mam had heart attack 4 Xmas ago Xmas day, we think every year it be her last one but 7 years on since her first one 🤞 here's my walk yesterday it's sunny again today hope weathers good for you, I have leafes to clear from my garden today again hope you have a good day 🤗💛✨🌟xx

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Caza

Oh dear, I think I’ll be doing online shopping and shutting up shop until Spring, how utterly miserable.

We must find a way to lighten our load, I’m thinking 🤔….

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Caza in reply to chloe40

Like Twinkly I had a lovely walk today. The sun was shining there was still frost on the ground. It was absolutely beautiful over The Heath. We live near a private airfield & there were small planes & gliders in the sky. It really was a lovely walk & the Beast (very large dog) was well behaved for once perfect.

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Turnipgirl in reply to chloe40

I had a lovely cold walk at lunchtime after our 6 monthly house inspection where the housing officer was proud of me and will see us in 6 months time.

I had my sister in law with me for support as I was terrified but saw it through and proved to myself everything was fine and there was nothing to get uptight over and said at the next one I will be fine on my own!

I find things like that difficult as it brings it all back to a time when I was 14 and my father went snooping through my room without asking to find condoms as I had got myself a boyfriend and this had really cut me to the core when that happened and since then things like 6 monthly inspections bring it all back but nowadays I'm free to say yes or no to things.

My friends said that was disgusting to have done that and how that is a woman's job if anything inappropriate is suspected in a girls room!

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Caza

Oh bless🤗x

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Caza

That’s not nice. He should have been proud of you for being responsible. But no going through someone’s private stuff is a NO.

Well done with the inspection

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Skyp

Mine is people say to me "are you on your own again this Christmas" why ask? When they know I am!!

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Skyp

Cheeky so and so, how rude is that!

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Sandradsn

I can't stand music in shops,it drives me mad,especially Christmas music!!!The adverts for food and parties on TV are awful!not to mention cheesey Christmas movies !

Christmas brings back lovely memories of loved ones gone.. ..its hard.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Sandradsn

I know Sandradsn

The memories are good mostly but I sometimes find they lead me to the grotty ones too sadly.

I can honestly say this is the first year I've wished it were over.

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Caza in reply to chloe40

Hear hear!

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