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A little positivity goes a long way

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when it comes to helping ourselves.

Grieving is something that doesn't just go away as we all know, but if we can try to find small positives in our lives, it helps.

I have started a different journal now for just this purpose, it doesn't have to be huge, it's the little things that help. The changing leaves of autumn, a little bird. something that has made me smile (even if that doesn't happen very often).

So please join me and let's continue this thread by posting one positive thing you have experienced each day.

Today, there are lots of parakeets in my garden, they make me smile! ๐Ÿ™‚

Chloe

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getting the dog out half decent walks has helped me a bit.

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That's good Kenny, I think walking, especially dog walking encourages you to go outside, and there's always a chance of a short chat too!

I remember you mentioning your dog wasn't too well, I hope he's okay now.

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Floxxy

Going out for walks with friends and looking at the fabulous tree colours. Walking really lifts my mood

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Absolutely Floxxy

And itโ€™s so beautiful this time of year x enjoy

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Yesterday I had a job interview but enjoyed a nice walk in the park and swimming in the afternoon.

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I hope youโ€™re successful Turnipgirl

Walk and swimming, brilliant x

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Caza

morning Chloe, Iโ€™ve been quite down these last couple of weeks due to an insensitive neighbour.

Positives : just on my way home from a fantastic break with my husband. We visited a castle & a maze got totally lost. Got chatting to two the other couples who were also lost. Had great fun. & following day visit to the sea, had a lovely long walk. Absolutely delicious lunch in quaint old town. Just what the doctor ordered. Iโ€™m back x

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So sorry to read you've had a rough time due to neighbours, I empathise!

But there's no keeping you down Caza and I'm so glad you've spent time with your husband on a well deserved break <3

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Greyone

Today I experienced getting a good nights sleep. Most nights I'm up late or early for a comfort break. Today i sleep in till just before my getting up time. The one thing that helps me is my new Duvet. Never thought it would make such a difference. Looking forward to Winter to see what else I can conquer.

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That's great Greyone

It's amazing how these things make such a difference, sweet dreams.

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Nothing beats a good nights sleep ๐Ÿ˜ด

Hello Chloe sorry late replying I felt very uplifted other day in a sunny walk in my park here's a photo sure will make you smile ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’š๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒท

Zoom on swan
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Swan babies growing up click to see full

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Look at this :-)

I feel more relaxed just looking at it, thank you!

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Sorry others upside down ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

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No worries at all!

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Hi Hidden

Wow what a gorgeous pic, must be absolutely lovely walking through there<3

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Hi Chloe here's another ๐Ÿค—I'm just heading to mam's ordering sand for sand bags incase of floods ๐Ÿ’š๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒท

Inspires me to paint the reflection looks like paint maby again one day
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Beautiful twinkly, yes I agree, very inspiring x

Oh dear, I hope you don't suffer floods, but best be prepared.

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Is it time kenster1 sent some nature pics in, you're such a good photographer <3

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Chloe

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Not sure you have seen my ocean photos. This is the place I find very healing

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Ocean USA
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Oh dolphin me and mam painted one like this I sold mine to a guy used to work with mam's still got hers I'll take pic and show you I've screenshot yours so I can loose myself in it thanks for this ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’š๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒท

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Beautiful ๐Ÿ˜

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Oh wow Dolphin14

I don't recall seeing this, it's magicalโ˜บ๏ธI'm not surprised you find this place healing!

Thank you <3

Good morning Chloe here's from yesterday's walk another sunny day I went to the part where the squirells are abundant so friendly look he's waiting for nuts I'll take some today I had photo of one feeding out my hand but lost it on my old phone can't access it so many great memories gone always good idea to get a back up on a memory stick or print off special ones I pref the old print photos and albums, hope you have a good weekend and nice weather it's been particularly warm again for November ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’›๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒท

Zoom in see his cute face๐Ÿ˜
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Oh that's so lovely Hidden

Really beautiful pics, big smile on my face !

Enjoy todays walk <3

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Good morning Chloe I've just posted a set of my reflection photos on a anxiety sight I'm on here's one for you enjoy your weekend ๐Ÿค—I like to sit there and reflect,click to see full๐ŸŒท

Reflections
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Photography is so theraputic getting out there and absorbing yourself in your environment and getting the shot just right here's one took me until the last goose jumped in to get the right sight lol mam started photography after my step dad died about 19 yrs ago got a computer and printer, we went on lots of Holliday's it was her Hobby and her granddaughter was born then she became her photo hobby so many albums, I'm lucky I live next to a beautiful park it's my sanctuary ๐Ÿ’›๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒฒ

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I can see it's such a great hobby, and will definitely help with stress and grief.

Enjoy <3

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