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What was bad and good just after....?

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Your loved one passed away

Good

Been left food

Visitors

Prayers funnily enough

Bad

Constant asking about the funeral

Pushy people

His family generally not good

Crowded with visitors at times then nothing, same with phone calls and texts

Hope this is not too much of a trigger. TC

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For me, with both parents and my first two husbands dying years ago, the good after being widowed for the third time was knowing that at 86, I need never again take complete responsibility for another human being. The bad is that my third husband and I were married only for three years when he died.

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