The lovely Ellabella has been my rock over the last few days, but i dont want to be a constant thorn in her side and cause any distress to her. A big thank you to Maya_Dawn who has been messaging and gladly not disappeared from here.
My OH has taken a turn for the worse. Its not been plain sailing the last 6 months, but now it he has hit rock bottom. Feel like we have just done one big circle and back to square 1. Everything is getting to him. job, the problems that have caused this damn illness. He turned his phone off at the weekend and only got in touch last night. Only by tx not calling. He says he has had enough and sick of messing up.
How do i help him through this. If i give him space it drives me mad cos i constantly worry and get in a state myself. He just isolates himself.