I've practiced "freewriting" and it does help. this is when you sit with a pen & paper or at the computer and write/type whatever comes to mind - no planning, pre-thinking or reading it back just freeflowing, unconscious,thought. you don't have to look at it until you want to. You can also audio record your thoughts in the same way.
I've done this for many years and it gets easier.
I've been shocked; saddened; surprised; upset; moved and heartened by things I WROTE!
I've discovered feelings I didn't know I felt.
Learned things I didn't realise I knew.
I have accepted me.
hope it may help.
regards,
sandra.