Now what to do

[Dolphfan47]

My story is so long and so confusing I have no idea on where to start. I can start at the beginning I guess I have posted before about my husband deciding two years ago that he wanted to bring mother woman into our marriage decided to have kids with this woman pretty much put me on the back burner make me feel like I don’t exist. However about two months into the relationship he found out she was still sexting other guys he flipped ever since that day he always brings it up cuts her down treats her like crap and whatnot.. Had two threesomes without me involved saying she owed them to him because of what she did.. Now he met this girl (one of the threesomes) who is madly in love with him who told him her roommate is planning on moving out with his girlfriend and this girl has no where to go so my husband offered for this girl to move in to our house.. He says it’s for the money however I know it’s for more. The second chick hates this girl because she’s younger and thinner and a redhead (exactly what my husband Ike’s). He said it in passing the other day having her move in is pretty much out of pure spite because how second chick feels about her.. I’m pretty much just got in the middle of all of this and just hating every moment of it all.. My anxiety is so high right now..

[Agora1]

Dearest Dolphfan47, it's nearly been a year since you came onto this forum.

I'm sorry to see that this still all goes on in your home. Partners changing but not

the situation. How can you not have physical and emotional issues?? Your life is

up for grabs. You seem to have no control or say as to what your husband decides.

Feeling this loss makes you subject to loss in self esteem as a person, as a wife.

I'm not a doctor/therapist so I can't suggest as to what to do . However, I do know

something needs to change. Sending my best to you xx

[Yoga2011]

I think you need to leave him and start living a normal happy life without him