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Leebowles98
Leebowles98

I’ve been talking to this girl for 3months now but there’s one things she does that makes me anxious I send her a message she opens it and doesn’t reply for like half hour to an hour she does text back eventually she says she’s busy at the time but it just makes me and anxious and I find it weird she does that or do people do that sometimes anyone you know that does that would like some help as it sends my anxiety through the rough

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Id say up to an hour to reply isnt that bad at all maybe she is just busy at the time. If it was days then yes id be more worried but as long as she is replying i wouldnt worry .

Leebowles98
Leebowles98 in reply to Lauriem4

Yeah she reply’s she just reads it and then doesn’t reply for like half hour to an hour or maybe a couple of hours when ages at work she says she really really like me and I’m meeting her parents Friday obviously social distance outside

Lauriem4
Lauriem4 in reply to Leebowles98

Try not to overthink things then as thats a gd sign👍

Leebowles98
Leebowles98 in reply to Lauriem4

You make someone meet there parents if you don’t want a relationship with you would you

Wouldn’t

Lauriem4
Lauriem4 in reply to Leebowles98

No you wouldn't be no point

Leebowles98
Leebowles98 in reply to Lauriem4

That’s what anxiety makes you do makes you think oh there going to leave you or they don’t want anything with you and overthink

Lauriem4
Lauriem4 in reply to Leebowles98

Yeah true anxiety makes you doubt everything

Leebowles98
Leebowles98 in reply to Lauriem4

I don’t have anything to worry about do I

Lauriem4
Lauriem4 in reply to Leebowles98

No you dont

We aren’t together we’re just talking at the moment

She brought me a valentines present and stuff like that

She only does the not replying when at work

And she’s told me she wants something serious with me and she lives me even thought we aren’t together yet

I’ve met her 5times aswell so she’s obviously keen

Also she’s already met my parents

22 why

I used to freak out at that but I ended up turning my read receipts off and it saved me soooo much anxiety.

I tried to remind myself that people get busy (hell, I’m so bad about opening texts and forgetting to reply lol) but it didn’t work. So maybe just turn your reads off

Yeah I get anxiety about it but she does reply and we’ve been speaking for 3months now seen each other 5times so she must keen do you know what I mean and she was fine about meeting my parents

I mean she says she really like me and she wants to see what the future holds so just need to ask her to be my girlfriend then we will be official then I just get anxious when she does that sometimes

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