Anxious love

[Rachms11]

Hey all, has anyone felt anxious when they move in either their partner for the first time? So much that it is making you doubt everything n want to go back home to your comfort zone? Please help

[Vale89]

I am also going through this at the moment but I have been living with my bf for 3 years then In November last year something changed in me and I didn't feel happy about it anymore so I started spending more and more time back at home with my mum but nothing helped I went back to him and nothing has changed. I'm sorry I'm not much help but I'm right there with you

[Rachms11 in reply to Vale89]

Yea I know the feeling! I've been with him 3 years and we only just moved in together. We got engaged back in January too makes it so much harder as I was happy and no anxiety while at my parents. Just sucks. Guess we can just give it some more time??

[Vale89 in reply to Rachms11]

That's a big thing getting engaged and it scares me too. It takes a lot of adjusting when u move intogether. Yes give it more time and don't forget to communicate with him. X

[Rachms11 in reply to Vale89]

Yea it sure is. I've always had anxiety but it has come back really bad and frequent now. Just so anxious from moving away from my parents as they are my rock. Not sure how long to wait for this to see if it passes or not? It's so hard

[Vale89 in reply to Rachms11]

How long has it been now that u have been suffering ? Do ur parents live far away

[Rachms11]

About 7 years. Ever since I hit sent to boarding school. 30 mims away. Pathetic hey