hi. spent wk end with my ex and was ok most of the time. still had weepy and overwhelmed times, we were invited to his daughters house warming. it went ok tho.
I want to go back, but he is such a horder and house needs a good clean. his hording got me down in the past, every cupboard and draw is full of stuff he will probably never use.
any help on how I can deal with this. we never seam to talk about important matters unless I bring them up.
he mentions small things I can change and talks as tho I am back there full time. feeling anxious and confused. where do I go from here!
am never sure how to make my post - who exactly is everyone - is it safer to only post to this community?