Tomorrow

[scoobyd]

Well tomorrow's the day I've packed but I don't want to go. I want to unpack. Not stopped crying. This house is my life wish things were different. I can't do it. After all these years.

[Hidden]

Hi scoobyd

I no even when I have wanted to move , I have still found it emotional & cried

We are leaving behind what we no is familiar & we can struggle with that as we dont like change

But we do adapt to it , takes time , but you can do this

It will seem strange for a while but soon your new home will feel like it belongs to you & you have always been there & slowly you will feel content again

Thinking about you

Love

whywhy

xxx

[Hidden]

Hi Scoobyd.

I can't believe that because of someone elses actions you have had to move, your security is most important and that of your son, I hope that your move goes well and you settle in quickly and make more friends I understand how you must feel and as you know we are always here for support.

[scoobyd in reply to Hidden]

Thanks having anxiety really doesn't help. Change and leaving people are my worst fears

[Tigeroo]

Hi Scoobyd

I don't know why you are moving, but I have had experiences where I lived with good friends, and people that gave me panic attacks at the same time. Although I was sad to have to leave these places, I knew it was the right thing for my health.

More recently I had to leave an apartment that I loved, that I had lived in with my partner, because he left me. The night I handed my keys in, I cried and cried and cried. But now I am settled in my new place, and I love it, it's my home and it's just the way I like it. Change is hard, but you always get used to it. Chin up xx

[scoobyd]

Thanks x I'm trying really I am but I'm no good in situations like this x

[Hidden]

try to think at least you will have a home of your own,hope it will be better for you,please let us know how you get on,I,m in the same sort of postion,being me I,m always worse than anyone else.

[scoobyd in reply to Hidden]

Hi I've already got a house of my own for the last 25 yrs I've had it. The new one is just rented x

[scoobyd in reply to Hidden]

I always think the worst wish I could be brave I was until I got anxiety