Been away from this site for a while...

[Thankfulforhelp22]

....dealing with a loved one in cancer treatment (ongoing but looking up), the stress of living in today's USA, and my therapist retired (we just had our last session).

I was not new to having family with cancer but this time around was much more difficult. Cancer is much more of a bitch than I ever realized. That goes for the disease, the treatment, side effects, stress, the health care system, the cost, feeling helpless etc. In all this I realize that we were more blessed and had advantages others do not enjoy. What do they do with limited resources, inadequate or no health coverage, no family or friends for support? Thinking about it was painful.

What lies ahead as I try to find a new therapist? I know I would benefit from one and feel I need to continue. I am now in the position many of you have been or are - looking for someone new that suits you.

I refuse to discuss the country (USA) other than to say I have never had so much stress come from the government, its leaders, actions and beliefs. Trust in people has been damaged severely.

I will say this: Although my spirit seems under attack constantly by events, I am re-doubling my efforts and focus on treating everyone I encounter with kindness and respect.

Sorry for the rant.

Every one of you who suffers with mental health issues have my prayers for healing and to find some joy.

Thanks.

[Nothing_but_books]

I appreciate the rant. Knowing I'm not the only one is nice. My husband has cancer. I live in the USA. Even if you avoid the news as I do, you hear too much.

[Thankfulforhelp22 in reply to Nothing_but_books]

appreciate you 😀

[Agora1]

Never feel as if you have to say you're sorry for ranting or venting. We all

need that release at times in allowing us to see more clearly. Life is difficult

for sure. We never know what we will be given to contend with but know

dear friend that the community of friends is always here with their hand

extended. We help each other get up when the going gets tough.

You are never alone. xx

[Thankfulforhelp22 in reply to Agora1]

good to hear from you. Hope all is well. Thanks for your words.

[Agora1 in reply to Thankfulforhelp22]

Always xx

[hypercat54]

Yeah I agree with you there. I keep thinking I just want a nice peaceful retirement just like my parents enjoyed without all the shite that's going down seemingly everywhere now.

Its rubbish in the UK now too. But nothing like the USA is facing now.

[Thankfulforhelp22 in reply to hypercat54]

I hope you do find that peace and joy as well. I’m sure you deserve it.

Take care.

[hypercat54 in reply to Thankfulforhelp22]

Not with all the rubbish going down everywhere it seems. Thanks anyway and I hope you find what you need too.

[worthytobeloved]

I really feel for you, and will think of you and pray for your loved one with cancer especially. I also hope you find a really good therapist soon. In the meantime, I hope you will be able to talk, to share your feelings and, if necessary, vent. It really helps to get things of your chest - (they say 'a trouble shared is a trouble halved'). You are not alone worrying about your country - most of the world is too. All we can do is hope and pray that good will prevail, and that we continue to treat everyone with kindness and respect. The more of us that do that, the more it will rub off on other people. Bless you and your loved one. xxx

[Thankfulforhelp22 in reply to worthytobeloved]

Thank you so much. Bless you.

[Amysmom]

I know where your coming from with the cancer , my husband had lung cancer and prostate cancer it was a long battle and just watching all he went through was pure hell, But on the bright side he survived all the treatments and is now cancer free for 10 yrs. Never worry about having to rant we are all here to listen and we all rant especially when we are really stressed out. As for what is happening in this country only thing I can say is don't watch the news its depressing as hell and there really isn't much we can do about it except wait it out and hope for the best. Wishing you much luck in life

[LazyXrayEyes2255 in reply to Amysmom]

I'm glad he made it!! Thank you for sharing xxxx

[Amysmom in reply to LazyXrayEyes2255]

It was like I said a long battle and scary but my husband is one tough cookie. Me on the other hand LOL I am great in emergencies and taking care of stuff then when the dust settles I fall apart. My doctor says I come in like a Hurricane when its needed then fall apart later LOL. Thank God for therapists without them OMG I have no idea where I would of been after all that.

[LazyXrayEyes2255]

Cancer, my grandad didn't make it from stomach cancer and know somebody else in remission. Stories always touch me xxxxx best to you and everyone xxxxxx