unwanted guests

[Rufus07]

Does anyone else have a problem with people stopping by unannounced? When I’m having a bad day, that’s the last thing I want. Even if they are friends. I have a hard time putting on a fake smile. Sometimes after they have been here, I feel better. But most often not.

[litethatnevergoesout]

when I feel great I dislike it. never come over unannounced

[Rufus07 in reply to litethatnevergoesout]

Sig. other has an open door policy. Come over whenever you want. He said, don’t ask me to change that cause I won’t. I would never make him do that, but I just think it’s rude.

[90sCountryMusicfan36]

Yes I do and I really hate it. Crazy thing is even on "GOOD DAYS" I don't want any visitors. I'm more of a if I want to see you, I'll come to you type of person. I believe people leave spirits in your home and I don't want any of those things In here. No I don't practice witchcraft or any of those things but I don't have a WELCOME MAT at my door for a reason......YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE 🤣😂🤣🤣.......PROCEED WITH CAUTION better yet DONT PROCEED...turn around and go back home 🤭🤷🏽‍♀️

[Rufus07 in reply to 90sCountryMusicfan36]

Amen!

[Rufus07 in reply to 90sCountryMusicfan36]

if I want to see you, I’ll invite you over. You never know what’s going on in a persons life that day and to just stop over is rude. Just my opinion.

[90sCountryMusicfan36 in reply to Rufus07]

And you are absolutely right! Stand on that......you have a right to feel that way and so do I😁🙃

[Rufus07 in reply to 90sCountryMusicfan36]

Yes we do have that right.

[Albatrossss]

It's completely valid to feel that way. Unannounced visits can be overwhelming, especially on tough days.