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Something that i wrote as a pm but it hurts so much to stay for one person

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"Your mom is lost in a drunken depression over your father" this hurts like a knife. I can't make her move on. Nor stop drinking. I just start to see his absence and the jelaousy and abandonment everyone was talking about. He caused so much turmoil and he doesn't even care. Sis is the only one not knocking herself out with alchol or meds

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Alpakka123

Hi AtC,

Probably not what you're looking for in a response, but please be careful who you pm with. You have actually been the main person I was worried about in regards to the private messaging system because of your kind and sensitive nature. Please, please, please be careful who you private message with. Moderators can not moderate whatever goes on in there; they can only moderate what's on here.

I just wanted to put that out there.

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Midori in reply to Alpakka123

Very true.

Cheers, Midori

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Alpakka123 in reply to Midori

Hi Midori,

I hope you are well today! Yes, I for one have been burned on there more than once (this was under my previous username), so it never hurts to pass on the warning.

Have a great day!

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Midori in reply to Midori

I can be pretty ruthless if I need to.

Cheers, Midori

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Alpakka123 in reply to Midori

Thanks for helping out!😉

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Against_the_current in reply to Alpakka123

I appreciate your concern. I need someone to worry about me with brain not like mom "im worried someone will hurt you so i will hurt you myself"

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Alpakka123 in reply to Against_the_current

You're welcome! This goes beyond general concern, though. We actually have someone trolling this site who uses the private messaging system to get to others. I and many others have been had this way. I unfortunately can't tell you who this is because I don't know who it is. They disguise themselves behind multiple usernames when, in fact, they are the same person. It's absolutely horrendous. Please, please, please exercise extreme caution. Do you know the person you're messaging with? (Rhetorical question since I don't want to know the answer to this).

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Starrlight

((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))) that’s so difficult

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Against_the_current in reply to Starrlight

Hug

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