feeling unmotivated lately

[AndrewMullins]

I have been going through a break up in probably my first secure relationship I have had in my 26 years of living. She said my anger terrifies and scarred her. That I emotionally abused and manipulated her, along with weaponizing my anger towards her. I have never felt I was ever like this. I have always viewed myself as a caring and supportive partner. But what she said to me has made me feel like a monster and it’s really affected my mental health.

[AndrewMullins]

I have enrolled in therapy, other support groups, but yeah…what she said cut an incredibly deep wound. Not to mention how badly I hurt her…I hurt her so bad that she said she couldn’t wait for me to get better…that’s how much I scared her and hurt her…

[Downinil]

Hi Andre! I’m sorry you’re going through this breakup but please try to get your mind off of the situation as much as possible. I know that’s easier said than done but we’re all here for you when you need to talk about your feelings.