Saving a relationship advice

I am 22 female n I was dating 23 male. We have been seeing eachother for 4 months. I kept doing things without realizing that broke his trust and it got to the point where he feels he can’t trust me. Where it’s broken beyond repair. I do manipulating and lying without realizing, it’s because I get scared of not having what my anxious mind tells me I need, or repercussions of stuff I may say. it isn’t extreme but enough to break his trust. He believes he will hold a grudge and not be able to trust me. He broke up with me tonight and I do not know if I should leave it as is and start doing the changes I need to, or stay in contact. There’s more to the story but I am lost.

[litethatnevergoesout]

”kept doing things without realizing that broke his trust and it got to the point where he feels he can’t trust me”

you said it. trust is the first most import thing on the list. The fact you think changing at this point or that you have an option to leave as is or stay in contact is rather presumptive, bold and arrogant.

Change if you don’t want this to happen with someone else. say goodbye this one.

[litethatnevergoesout in reply to litethatnevergoesout]

Not being rude just saying how it goes.

[Desperate4Happiness]

I am sorry for what you are going through. Breakups are difficult but you seem to know what your destructive behavior is and that's a good place to start your growth.

Do you see a therapist?

What would be your reason for staying in touch with your now ex? Just something to think about.

Wishing you peace.