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A guy that works for my husband committed suicide last night. He was a young guy and his mom found him. It has laid heavy on my husband and I all day… along with many others.

I wish before ppl did this they could see how many ppl really do care and would have done anything to help.

It is just so tremendously sad.

I’m sending everyone here all my love and light… always know someone cares and there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

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Mskitty21

I agree… it just makes me feel so bad for everyone. Including how awful he must of felt to take his life. And all the ppl that cared for him. It’s gut wrenching.

Thank you for replying 🩷

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Starrlight in reply toMskitty21

How are you feeling today?

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Mskitty21 in reply toStarrlight

Better 🩷 I’ve faced this before and i kinda know how to get myself back together and not dig into it to deep. Or let myself get caught up in the ‘if only a’

Thank you for your kindness and checking on me 🩷 I really appreciate you 🩷

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Starrlight in reply toMskitty21

That’s great! You are strong. Thanks I appreciate you too☺️

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Mskitty21 in reply toStarrlight

😊

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Starrlight

Oh no I’m so so sorry, Mskitty.

tonight I found my brother’s suicide note had not seen it since he died in 97 I’m grieving all over again.

Im so sorry my heart goes out to all of you left with grief and sending out healing vibes((((((((

Recently my niece triers to kill herself then my sister is unwell and cut me out of her life.

So I can really relate - the night is tainted with difficult feelings for us. I wish you and all involved the best especially the soul who has left and his mom. My mom also found my brother, then I came into the room. PTSD. Terrible.

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Mskitty21 in reply toStarrlight

Thank you Starrlight 🩷 I feel like since I struggle with depression and anxiety it hits me hard… if that makes sense. I wish I could have been there and hugged this young man and helped him. It just breaks my heart for how he must have felt and for those left behind.

I’m so sorry you are having troubles tonight as well. Tomorrow will be a new day and maybe better for the both of us 🩷

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catsrock

How sad. I've lost 2 uncles and a brother to suicide and it's really hard. My condolences to your husband.

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Cb1963

Trigger warning ⚠️

Talking of suicide.

Truly heart breaking, I'm a " survivor "from my friends suicide , and another traumatic incident happened to me, all in the space of six months, and I still have the thoughts of

" what if" I still have bouts of depression, and trying to discuss suicide is a taboo subject sometimes, I became an alcoholic because of the events, it changed my whole life, but since I've been sober for over 12 years I think in a different way, I've become a worrier in some respect, whereas when I was drinking this was the

" medication " I was using to block out these thoughts, I will never forget the incidents, or finding my friend hanging from the ceiling, I'm damaged goods for life, and don't often talk about this subject, I'm sending my deepest thoughts and condolences to all concerned

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Mskitty21 in reply toCb1963

Thank you for sharing your story with me 🩷 I’ve seen the devastation of suicide before and it’s just so heart breaking. And just as heartbreaking for the person who felt that life was not worth it anymore.

I wish there was a way to let them know to give it a day… a month… anything… life can get better.

Many of us here … I feel… have had those awful days and times in our lives and push through somehow.

Thank you again for sharing and for your thoughts 🩷.

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Cb1963 in reply toMskitty21

Thanks for your kind words, I'll never understand the reasons behind the death of my friend, it's left me with more questions than answers, he had everything to live for, a wife with two young children, and yet I was the last person to spend his final hours with, no hint, absolutely nothing, I struggle to get my head around this situation and that's over 35 years ago, something I carry with me to this present day, and probably have for the rest of my days , once again my deepest sympathy to all concerned 🙏

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Starrlight in reply toCb1963

(((((((((((((((((❤️)))))))))))))))))

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Mskitty21 in reply toStarrlight

How are you feeling today? Any better? Sorry… I should have asked earlier

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Starrlight in reply toMskitty21

Oh no worries my sweet friend. I’m doing great thanks. How are you today?

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Mskitty21 in reply toStarrlight

So much better today🩷 Just waiting to get the funeral plans and get some things arranged for the family.

And this is what I wish I had a way of conveying to everyone struggling… it gets better. Last year i was at the hospital with severe panic attacks and depression and now i manage very well. It’s just not letting the hard days win ya know.

I hope you are well and taking good care 🩷

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Starrlight in reply toMskitty21

💜❤️💕⭐️💕❤️💜

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Agora1

Mskitty21, I'm so sorry to hear that. A young life lost is only the beginning of loss

in the people around them. My condolences to you and your husband.

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Starrlight

I almost gave up last night.

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Mskitty21 in reply toStarrlight

I’m glad you didn’t sweetie 🩷 please keep hanging on… things will get better sweetie

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Starrlight in reply toMskitty21

Thank you for being here. Today is a new day, I have new goals and everything is fine now. I’m determined to do better.

How are you doing? ❤️⭐️

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Mskitty21

Good today 🩷 Went on a date night with my hubby and we both had a good time. It was much needed I think 😊

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