Grass is not greener

[mariamdblanco]

I HATE being married. I have kids. I dlfeel stuck. I want to make it work. But I don't think I can make him understand anymore. And after 13 years, putting me in embarrassed, after lawsuits, jail and homeless and everything!! And not to mention cheating, god knows how many times and he still had the nerve to say I'm just like everybother girl still and he still can never look me in my eyes cuz girls lie and I've never ever donrle anything. Textbook narcissist

[Dolphin14]

mariamblanco

Welcome to the community.

It doesn't sound like you are being respected. Living with a narcissist can destroy you and your children.

Any thoughts on leaving? Counseling?

🐬

[Agora1]

Never lose sight of who you are for your sake

and the sake of your children. xx

[Midori]

I hope your children do not see the way he treats you, or they might grow to believe it is the right way to behave themselves.

This is real bad abuse, you owe it to yourself and your children to GTHO.

Can you get to a Women's Refuge with the kids?

Then perhaps you can start thinking clearly about what to do next. I'm in UK, so the system is slightly different, but the refuge was brilliant for the kids and I, helped me get non- molestation orders and start organising a divorce.

Cheers, Midori