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Long story. But we have to rehome a beautiful, gentle dog that we love because our first dog is territorial. This has been totally unexpected because Dog 1 is so dog-friendly at the park and at dog day care. He plays with "everyone" and avoids confrontations if they arise in different settings. We'd NEVER have brought a second dog into our home if we had any inkling of the first dogs' territory aggression. It's a precarious situation. I'd NEVER give away a dog for any reason other than safety. So this is hard for me to accept. We have tried different things for a year to keep dog 2 in the family to no avail. I know I will get through this eventually,but I'm in the midst of the sadness and loss right now. I love these dogs. They are my "kids." I feel so sad, as if I'm abandoning one of them. I know it's for the best, But right now I'm heartbroken. ❣️ I wish the best for my pal. I know he'll be fine. I wish him the best!

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Starrlight

I’m sorry that’s so difficult 😞 ((((((((((((hug and good healing vibes)))))))))))

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Madigansmom

Thank you for your response and understanding. It is comforting to know that others understand how difficult it is. I believe dog 2 will be happy with his next step. I know it will take time for us humans to heal but it is for the best. I am encouraged to hear that your that your cats grew to tolerate each other. That is a blessing and I'm sure it took much patience and strategy on your part. Thank you for the kind words. Hugs to your kitty. And I appreciate your reply. 🙂

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Midori

That's so sad, that your Senior dog won't accept the younger one, but you have given it a long go, and it's better the younger one goes before he also gets aggressive

I hope he finds a good forever home soon,

Cheers, Midori

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Madigansmom

GLAD TO REPORT... We have made the choice to keep both pups. We have training support from our local humane society. And we have created boundaries in our home to give both dogs space and safe contact on occasion. There will be hard days and some tense moments I'm sure. But I'm blessed to have a spouse who loves our dogs as much as I do and more importantly has agreed that we are both too committed to our dogs happiness to "give up" on the situation. Thanks to all for the kind words. ❣️. So glad things seem to be working out so far.

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