Passing by the time

[melist95]

I am recently divorced and suffering from severe depression and anxiety. I find little joy in the things I used to like doing, I also find that coming home to an empty house without a partner is very lonely and I’m finding I have all of this free extra time where I am so bored and don’t know what to do with myself. What are some hobbies or things people have found to be entertaining or enjoyable to pass by this extra time I have.

Thank you!

[Agora1]

Hi melist95 there are so many people in this world who need someone like you

to share your extra time with them. I use to volunteer at hospitals. I found it

gratifying in putting a smile on someone's face. I worked in a Veterans hospital

on the Paraplegic Ward where I was amazed at the strength and positivity of

these men. It was a learning experience for me.

You could even entertain the fact of going to Park District or Night School for

classes you may be interested in. Meeting people who have the same interests

as you. I'm sorry to hear of your recent divorce but don't allow it to be the

end in being who you really are. There's a life out there waiting for you to

experience and enjoy. Wishing you well xx

[Nothing_but_books]

You can make sure all your pencils are sharpened.

Check all the pens still write, and throw out the useless ones.

Some of the pictures hanging on the wall might not be perfectly square. This'd be a good time to check.

Heaven forbid you've got expired food in your pantry. Get that stuff outta there.

I've got lots more. No idle hands here.

[Dolphin14]

melist95

Welcome to this very caring supportive group.

You have done great suggestions here.

I've read your replies to others where you have listed some things you already do to keep busy. You mentioned volunteering and joining groups. Are you still participating in these activities?

🐬

[LadyZen]

I wrote a novel during my separation and divorce. I also swam laps. Both were helpful for me since I had kids. You might need more social activities like dance lessons or something like that.

[catsrock]

For me, my pets make it easy to come home as the house is never empty! I'm sorry you're having a hard time and I like the great suggestions others have offered.