Time passing by

Does anyone else just lye down all day gazing and thinking..My mornings are are at worst..I just can't get up and do anything..I feel bad that I just sit and lie down half dead with running thoughts putting me to half asleep again and time is passing by me..Im 42 male and just want to be productive..I don't want to waste my life away

[iromoomori]

Everyone has times where they think whats happening in their lives isn't enough. People want excitement and not the repetitive struggle of everyday life. My advice to you is to get out there! Don't let your surroundings limit you to your happiness! You don't have to make a dramatical life change; even if it's something small! Do things that make you happy, discover something new. If you want to make adjustments to your life or flip it all around, that's up to you! You are the only person who has that ability! Talk to someone you trust, or even get to know new people. You have more potential than you think, and you still have the chance to use that potential!

[Agora1 in reply to iromoomori]

Precisely iromoomom x

[Hidden in reply to iromoomori]

Thank you..

[Agora1]

ellinaki, Life is passing you by. You won't know what's out there waiting for you if you are in bed gazing and thinking. Mornings are the hardest when we are not motivated and don't have a plan. So why get up?

I heard a story once about a girl who lived in her parent's basement. As she got older, she wondered and hoped that she would marry one day. One day she relayed that thought to an elderly aunt who said "I never heard of Mr. Right knocking at the basement door looking for his future bride. What you want and need in life is out there waiting for you to get up and greet the world with confidence and self esteem. Then tell me in 6 months that things haven't changed.

I know you can do it. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain by giving it a try. Good Luck

[Hidden in reply to Agora1]

Thanks agora1..I truly believe in what you said..

[Agora1 in reply to Hidden]

ellinaki, and that is the first step in going forward and that's believing. You know what you need to do and we will help you get there. So take our hand and we will help you the best we can. You are never alone

[Hidden in reply to Agora1]

Thank you for your kind words..I just seem to be going round and round but not going anywhere..I will get there though. . Thank you for assuring I'm not alone..

[Agora1 in reply to Hidden]

[scaitaly]

Exactly the same. I forced myself trying hot yoga, it makes me feel good......

[ciley]

i'm afraid i am quite familiar with the phase 'biding my time', because even when you're out there fighting you don't gert many chances and an incredible amoiunt are misssed,perhaps we need specsavers lol ciley