So Sad

[Fall1224]

I’m having a very emotional evening - feeling very sad and confused. Please pray for me.

[kenster1]

Hi what`s happened.

[Fall1224 in reply to kenster1]

Just thinking about my recent break up.

[kenster1 in reply to Fall1224]

break ups are always hard has it ended suddenly or was it on the cards.

[Fall1224 in reply to kenster1]

I was totally blindsided - not my decision. We were together for 8 years.

[kenster1 in reply to Fall1224]

sorry to hear that we don`t have control over others but we can control ourselves although your grieving the loss of the relationship you should focus on yourself to help you through the process.

[Fall1224 in reply to kenster1]

I have been really trying but I feel like I’m starting to get depressed.

[Ellamaye]

You will be in my prayers . Breakups and heartbreak are painful. I pray for your strength to get through it x

[CL3V3R-G1RL]

Breakups can be difficult especially when they seem to come out of the blue. It's hard because you analyze if there were signs that maybe you missed. Things that could have be done different. Blaming yourself for not seeing it coming or for the relationship not working out. Plus having spent 8yra almost a decade together. Now they are no longer around. Is a new normal you suddenly find yourself in and having to get use to that. But of course the transition is difficult.

They can be really difficult during the holidays.

I feel for you. I do not know how to unbreak a heart. But it's perfectly understandable to be sad. We do need to grieve even if nobody died. We need to grieve the loss of the relationship. You need to take time to mourn and heal.

I wish I could speed up the process for you. But all I can do is wish you well and send my thoughts to you. And tell you I'm sorry 🫂❤️ HU will be here if you ever feel the need to reach out and talk.

[Fall1224]

I will give it a listen! Thank you ♥️