Doing well until: So basically had a... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

88,505 members82,958 posts

Doing well until

Curtdun94 profile image
4 Replies

So basically had a 2 month break in a relationship. He started to treat me good and how I want, which is love and affection, but he is now acting toxic and saying stuff like "if we break up you will prob give the car I'm using to your new bf". Like pinning stuff on me that I would never do to define me. He don't cook clean or anything sexual or romantically wise anymore and he blames it on his work or he blames it on his low testostorone. Like idk I love the dude but I've grown out of love with him because of that and now we are back together but he has gone all the way back to what was the problem.

Written by
Curtdun94 profile image
Curtdun94
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
4 Replies
IncognitoC profile image
IncognitoC

Is he trying to find a way out?

IncognitoC profile image
IncognitoC

I know that will seem like a strange question. I’m also a gay guy and I have been single for a number of years now. I am very cynical when it comes to relationships. It just seems like he’s lost interest and is trying to manipulate you into finishing with him. I might be totally wrong though

TangledUpIn profile image
TangledUpIn in reply to IncognitoC

I thought the same thing IncognitoC

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54

Leopards don't change their spots. If someone loves you they don't treat you like that. I don't hold out much hope for your relationship I am sad to say.

You may also like...

I’ve been doing so well until now

3 weeks. It was all I could do to hold myself together while I was at my grandparents house eating...

Was doing good until today.

So I tossed her clean clothes in th \\"clean pile\\". Then the next day she was like that my dirty...

I'm not doing very well

with me. I mean, I have a diagnosis or whatever but like, what is WRONG with me? I can be in the...

Ugh. I was doing so well.

September 😩 so now it’s 7:03AM.... I can’t get back to sleep because of the pain AND my anxiety ☹️

not doing well…

I can get back there. Then boom, wake up shaky, weak and catastrophizing. I’m so tired. Idk how I...