I Miss My Friends

[Nerdydude99]

On August 28th, I had a mental breakdown with my friends on Social Media. To cool off, I told them that I was gonna take a break for a day to clear things out. I later found out that they had blocked me on every outlet I had contact with. Ever since, I had felt lost and confused. I love these people very much and they made me feel a part of this world. They like the same stuff I like and it felt like it’s meant to be. Now, I’m starting to doubt that these people will stick by me. I just hope that I do get to hear from them again.

[Sillysausage234]

when you say mental breakdown what did you do to get blocked by said people ?

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Sillysausage234]

I told them what I was going through and they were telling me to get help and stuff like that. This also wasn’t the first time this happened as well and I felt bad after the last one. I was getting a bit upset because they were talking about my issues behind my back and I did tell them that I didn’t trust them and I really regret saying that to them.

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Nerdydude99]

Ok ok ,nothing that can’t be resolved with a little time then …best of luck

[Hidden]

Hi I'm sorry you've been through that which social media site was it did you know them in person or just vertual friends

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Hidden]

They were virtual friends. I mostly contact them on Discord and Instagram but I followed them on almost everything

[Hidden in reply to Nerdydude99]

Oh I don't do them sites nor face book other than selling stuff, I heard bad things about social media bullying and such people after money conning others yud think on a health youd be ok but there's been scammers here too so be careful social media well🤦my personal opinion is friends in everyday life re so to speak the real world that you see speak to and know inside out is the safest bet maby try get out to meet people

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Hidden]

I’m usually aware with online bullying and scammers but they weren’t like that though.

[Hidden in reply to Nerdydude99]

I think you need to take a step back and do other things you say you love these people they prob have lot going on in there life's and maby just don't feel the same as you I don't feel its good to get so involved with people we don't know never met never will,just my opinion I've had my fair share of con men women on vertual stuff so I'm hard now to it I don't trust many on vertual

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Hidden]

Ya I think me and my friends needed a break from each other for a bit. I’m just scared that it will be permanent

[Hidden in reply to Nerdydude99]

If there true friends it won't be if they don't understand you there not for you not worth it 🤗

[Marysblue]

I don't know why people have to do that, it's so rude. You can just quit speaking to somebody on there, you don't have to block them or unfriend them. Sorry that happened to you. People can be so awful.

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Marysblue]

I’m just so confused cause I never thought that they would do this and even though they did this, I still care about them. I just don’t know anymore.

[Marysblue in reply to Nerdydude99]

I've had it happen to me and it's very confusing and painful. I think it's meant to be hurtful cause they could just quit speaking to you. they don't have to completely block you unless you were contuining to message them which in my case I wasnt. .If they've unfriended you or blocked you they're not very good friends is my opinion.

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Marysblue]

I do speak to them everyday before the whole situation. It just hurts so much because they made me feel happy and accepted. I even told me how much I loved them and they told me the same thing. I do want to speak to them again but I’m scared that I never will.

[Marysblue]

Well you honestly have nothing left to lose .. have you told them how much you miss them and that you love them.

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Marysblue]

I wish I could tell them how much I miss them but everyday I had always told them how much I love them. I hope they know that I still do.

[CLB1125]

I just read a little thing on Facebook. It said let them go if they return they care about you, if they don't they they never did. just leave it be for awhile. if they get over being upset they will unblock you. if they don't you aren't out anything . they weren't true friends. start talking to other people and make new friends. just remember on social media does anybody really know anybody?

[Nerdydude99 in reply to CLB1125]

I felt like I was really close with one of them. Maybe I am not anymore but I’ll just give it time till everything clears out. I do hope that it does.

[Dolphin14]

Hi

How are things going?

🐬

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Dolphin14]

It’s going ok. I’m still a bit sad over my friends but I think I am getting there

[Dolphin14 in reply to Nerdydude99]

It's very hard to lose people you care about. I'm sorry you are going through this

[Nerdydude99 in reply to Dolphin14]

Thank you! It means a lot to me