I can't stand when I make a mistake-help me :)

[RemySue]

I just got off the phone with someone I petsit for. I have petsat for her a lot of times but she now has two puppies and some things were not as she likes them when she got home. I apologized profusely and will try to be more attentive (I thought I was) which has never been a problem. She also questioned some things she has never questioned me about- kind of ticked me off a little because she's never had a problem with anything before.

Anyway, I really struggle with making a mistake. I do my best and as I said I apologized but I have a hard time getting past it when I mess up.

Any insight? Suggestions?

[kenster1]

is she paying more money for two puppies just be up front tell her puppies are very lively and that you looked after them like they were your own if you get a negative reaction then maybe you should stop.

[catsrock]

I'm also a pet sitter and have had something like that happen before. The fact that you apologized and were so attentive to her concerns makes you a good pet sitter. Two puppies can be a handful! You did not mess up - you did your best and that's what matters.

[LoveforAll41]

I feel the same anytime I make a mistake that involves others. I think that we have to focus on the fact that we are here to learn. That you feel bad is a sign that you care, let it motivate you to change if that is something that is appropriate. Thanks for sharing. Don't beat yourself up.

[Focusedmind]

Learn from your mistakes but forgive yourself. Practice self-acceptance.

Two puppies can be more than double the trouble! 🐶🐶

[designguy]

You may be a perfectionist which can amplify things for you when you make a mistake. There is a lot of good info on youtube about it as well as good books.