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I want to make a comparison for you to judge for yourselves

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Hello my friends, I have written again. In this article, I wanted to tell you that you are in the best condition, but you just have to occupy yourselves a little to be well. I know very well that some of you are from European countries and some of you are from the United States of America, and you know that your societies are sophisticated and I am educated, unlike the society in which I live, but it is from the societies of third world countries. You know that your financial and moral situation is above excellent. As for me, I am telling you about my story. I traveled to the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia to improve my situation 7 years ago, and during these years, away from my family, I developed colitis Nervousness, depression, fear and anxiety, and these years did not bear fruit after effort with suffering. I got a little money, so the Nigerian scammer on the Internet deceived me that he was an American girl, and I sent him everything I had, and finally I returned to my homeland, where the beginning of suffering again, where There is no work here and people are merciless. I took some money from my brother and got married, and here is my wife leaving me and taking my child because I am unemployed and my family scolds me for this illness and unemployment and now I am sitting unable to do anything because the doors were closed in front of me so I wanted to a J You may be wondering to yourselves, has any of you gone through what I went through? I think the answer is no, so you are in bliss, as I told you. You just have to entertain yourselves with something that makes you happy. Sorry for the prolongation. Accept my best regards.

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Munzir-I am so sorry to hear about the struggles. While you may think we have it wonderful in the US and UK, it isn't what you think. Hey, you have access to the internet where most third world countries do not. Personally, I spend every dollar I have for medical care as I have to fly all over the country. So no, first world countries don't have all happy and OK people in them. My husband divorced me in a state where my kids are trapped. I had to move across the country. I lived in and out of cars and friends homes for a year trying to figure out how to get to my kids. I also had to work as I was the breadwinner. Please do not down play what people are going through here on this site. I am on this board because I was given a terminal diagnosis and am terrified about what will happen to my family. My body is physically a mess. Just 5 years ago, maybe I was living some version of a dream. So no, I don't accept the comment that EVERYONE in the UK and US live in bliss. I have friends in third world countries and yes, it is hard, but we are all human lives with value.

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Munzir in reply to 012703060610

I am very sorry, but this is what I heard from some friends who immigrated to your countries, as they went in the near time, but soon their lives changed for the better, so how about those who were born and raised there, so this was just support from me, nothing more. I wanted to let them know that they are in a better position But I did not know that there are those who suffer as well as we suffer from in our third world, and I have watched many documentaries about life in your countries, but the situation was not worse than here, except that you have a lot of drinking alcohol and drugs that make a person have no value, but The person who works hard and earns has not been harmed because his time is always full, so I apologize again if I said something illogical. my regards

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Dolphin14

I am also sorry to read about your struggles.

It's so good to hear that your friends came to the US and found a better life.

As the other member replied it is not all a bed of roses here. There are many people who have gone through what you have in your country. Losing a job, losing family members, lack of understanding, being scammed by a con, etc

I imagine it's everywhere. The " American Dream" is what we all strive for but we don't all get there,

We are all on this site because we have had some type of hardship. We come from all walks of life. Mental illness doesn't discriminate.

Wishing you the best

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