the new saying it is what it is 🙄

well a lot just shrug off bad stuff thats happened saying it is what it is, f y i another new word saying, well im 58 and i dont know all the new stuff, oh well at least if we drum it into our minds it is what it is i guess its easier to accept stuff, rather than go round and round in our minds if this if that if id of done this that it wouldv been diffrrent maby FACT IS IT REALY IS WHAT IT IS and to make you feel better i have accepted this now hence even tho i sold my house for lot less than id have got if the council hadnt put bus shelter there just a year before i needed to put my house up for sale, well im releaved after 3 years of tryner sell it and got inbetween the valuation 3 years ago and the boom increase, despite the shelter my buyer is parking on the front, 😂😂😂using the bebours dropped curbs and im counting my blessings im no longer paying bills on a house im not living in and now getting some interest on the money my message to you is dont give up dont despair i had many times i thought i was going mad panic that id never get rid of my house, sometimes the fate people need a bit of time to sort things and as long as we do try our best to get things as we want thats all we can do, oh and you can imagine how i felt when i got a buyer and the news came on that a lot of mortgage lenders ate backing out,more stress well its over now take care and be positive chase your dreams youll get there 🌟💖heres my new great nephew kittens to bring a smile 😁one things for sure a couple of kittens running around playing is a great tonic 😁💖🌟

[Dolphin14]

I like the statement. It is what it is.... now what do I do with it, that's the key.

It is what it is...... I can never have another dog so I got a hedgehog hahahah

Glad you finally sold your house. What a relief.

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hello dolphin and hurbert, handsome hedgehog indeed😁so cute, who needs a dog when you can have a hog 😂i wanted a dog but i cant now and im happy with just my cat ive always been more of a cat person, yes big relief still cant beleve it really i keep thinking i have to go to my house like to put the bins out or check its ok, seems strange seeing someone moving about in it as i pass it most days, think ill start going the other way, im so glad to be rid but i did have many contented years there, well fate is fate i guess im meant to be with mam in her last years, good job it sold in time for the cold weather, hows things with you have you thought of getting hurbert a friend to snuggle up with, my niece is glad she decided to take 2 kittens. 💖😺🌟

[Dolphin14 in reply to Hidden]

Definitely good to be settled down for winter. I think I would do drive by's if I ever moved. I'm so emotionally attached to my house. Your mom is lucky to have you there with her. Works for you both I imagine?

Domestic hedgehogs are very solo anxious animals. Two males cannot be caged together due to being territorial. Two females can be caged together, they fight less but they do fight. Obviously if I did one of each I would have more 🦔 than I can handle hahah.

So one and done 🦔

I hope you have a great day

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Yes it's right it is what it is!

When I lost my job recently one of my friends said to me how i mustn't blame myself for situations that are beyond my control like that was!

On Tuesday I found out I had lost out on a place I had put an offer in for and I was disappointed but I would rather be disappointed over things I have done that haven't worked out than disappointed by not doing things and wondering what might have been!

I am OK about that Now and feel that it was a case that I wasn't meant to have had the place and I don't think I would have been happy there!

Today its a viewing at 4.15pm so it's a nice easy day today and then no appointments until 11am on Tuesday and I have 2 interviews next week as well.

Baby is well and still getting spoilt and sends her regards to Prince Pixie!

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hi cat i have decided not to apply for my old job i had during covid they are always advertising for casuals theres a fast turn over in staff, ill apply next time they advertise nearer spring, when it suits me i feel i need to recharge my batteries and have some me time self care after the past few years of most the time been in a state of stress worry panic, its not a great time to start a new job as they will most likely put new starters with the school runs the established workers wont do the naughty children and they can get agressive and abusive, and its a early start and so cold out and covid is on thr raise again, the reason i refused to work was to keep my mam safe and as im living with her for as long as it works out unless perhaps a affordable house comes uo very close by good luck with your appointments, i am starting my swimming again soon we are sorting and condensing stuff in the house, mine is in a section in the loft in bags n boxes, the nebour gave her some plastic stackers i have some of dads stuff to sell or give away too, were not ones for throwing stuff away enjoy your next swim 😺

small pixie age 5 months the kittens look so tiny compared to him

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I had a good afternoon out afterwards and met my friend for a catch up over a cup of tea before I went to my viewing at 4.15pm and it was raining but still I went and they said to think it through and if interested contact them tomorrow morning which is fair enough.

Thankfully there's no more booked appointments now until Tuesday at 11.

Good news as I have got a viewing appointment for Wednesday at 12.45pm at a place in Cardiff Bay after my interview at 10am in the city centre.

My next swim will be Saturday at 2pm.

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good luck with all that ive changed my mind i think ill apply 🙄

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Yes you apply!

Nothing to lose by trying!

I would rather wish I hadn't done things than wish I had!

Best of luck!

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I find it extremely difficult to pass on any item to Charity shops or Jumble sales. They sometimes live in my car boot for 6 months before I can let them go ! Occasionally I bring them back into the house. So I sympathise with your situation at present time. But I’m really pleased to hear your House sale went though and you can pass by it feeling satisfied and relieved you no longer have to live there. Well done you for persevering. Give yourself a 🎖 medal you wholeheartedly deserve it. x

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hello rose thanks yes what a relief, it caused me so much stress and expense so thats also a burden relieved mainly my health is back on track as i havnt drank now for just short of 2 weeks i still think sometimez like saturday niggt be nice change to chillout over a few glasses of wine but i am going for the 2 weeks to break a habit its hard sometimes because of my nuralgia with the cold air i have some soft fruit jelly sweets for treats but even eating hurts, im hoping to reach xmas then ill have a treat then, but actually past 2 xmas days ive had none alcoholic with mam on xmas day, how are things with you pixie sends a hug 😻🤗🌟xx

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