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my feelings of depression, anxiety, feeling of impending doom. I lost my Mother a year ago and my family has totally fallen apart. Having trouble with my marriage and feel like I’m not needed in life.

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sorry to hear that god bless your dearest mum.in the same position as you sadly after my mum died then my dad and then an aunt just rubbish so it is.we have a forum here called bereavement care and share and it could be of added support to you.

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anks for your response. I will check out your suggestion. I’m new to this so it may take me a bit. God Blesd

Hi my darling that’s so terribly sad! I’m so very sorry for the loss of your precious mum. It’s a horrible position to find yourself in. Now more than ever you need love, kindness and support! I too lost my darling mum two years ago and it caused a split in the family! It’s just horrible! Ken gave you good advice about the other group. We are always here for you my dear if you need to talk. You matter irrespective of how you maybe feeling your life and well being matters! Holding you close in my heart. Sending you the biggest of cuddles and all my love Lorna ❤️😘xx

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Thanks Lorna, that’s exactly what’s happened! The family split apart and I feel all alone and useless😢

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Ryleyboy

I am struggling right now with clinical depression. It is a reaction to a lot of stress I went through recently. I feel like a burden to my husband. I think the feeling of not being needed is a symptom of the depression because I’ve been in a depression like this many times in my life and that is always how I feel. I know it may not help to know it’s part of depression because the feeling is so real

Hello, feeling of impending doom is something that I've been struggling with for several years. I'm sorry about the loss of your mother, I lost mine at the age of 14 and I'm not sure if that has something to do with that type of feeling. The confusing thing is that I didn't start to develop the feeling of impending doom until I was much older. Tough to pinpoint where that came from.

Nothing worse than feeling like you are no longer needed in life. I used to be the go-to guy and now I'm obsolete. Sometimes I go out of my way to help someone in a futile attempt to feel like I'm needed and that I'm actually doing some good. No doubt all this feeds our depression and anxiety

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