In love with someone from another country

[Against_the_current]

We met here. Then talked on whatsapp. Then on instagram. Firstable it wasn't going that way but these days....damn i'm in love. And he is too. First time feelings are mutual. But he's really depressed and needs friends and i sujested someone of my contracts whom i barely know but he liked my guy and also has depression and i thought it might hel, than my guy messaging random girls and me getting jelaous. But he got jelaous of my person and said I will eventually end up with him or someone from my country and it broke me. I don't want someone from my country and they aren't interested in me. But he thinks they are because he sees me as more than i am because he loves me. First time it being mutual. I should have told him i'm not so much and they aren't attracted to me, he just sees me like that. I'm an idiot. I'm an idiot. And i see it's a sign of love to be willing to let me go. But i don't want to go.

And the other option is to move there. But i'm so anxious and broke how can i? How can i plan it right now? I don't want to think about the future. I'm not okay

I'm unstable these days. How to plan imigrating?

[compasnet]

it may not be easy, but I say follow your heart. 🙏

[Genuineguy]

Im really sorry, this sounds like such a confusing and overwhelming situation. It can feel so overwhelming to feel so many intense feelings for someone but not be able to do anything about them. Im quite an emotionally intense person myself, which is why I am careful how I get close to people. I know it can break me if I get feelings for someone and cant do anything about them. So, I just focus on building myself and my own life until Im ready to be with someone. It takes patience, but its the only way for me personally. But I know when Im ready I will have a lot to give. You may handle things the same or different to me but I hope it helps somehow to know you arent alone in your feelings. I promise, you will be ok. It feels overwhelming at the time, but you will be ok and find peace.

[Midori]

Do not rush into anything. Keep talking for awhile before making what could be a very expensive trip with no result.

If he really loves you he will wait!

Cheers, Midori

[Hidden]

Listen, he lives where he lives and you live where you are. It’s nice that both of you are connecting to each other but when it comes down to reality maybe both of you should just be long distance friends.