My whole mood depends on him. When things go wrong between us, I can’t function. I can’t eat, I overthink, I can’t sleep, then repeat
And there’s always this fear of him abandoning me. I think I’ll never be happy when he leaves me.
I have this mindset stuck with me that if my partner leaves me I’ll be forever miserable. He’s my first true love. He gave me the attention, love, and care I was lacking all my life.
But now he takes everything for granted, gives me the least of him and the whole pattern gets me fucking exhausting.
I want to heal from being that obsessed.
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StressedWhale, it is important that you heal from this obsession with your bf. It is not a healthy relationship. As you can see eventually that partner starts pulling away emotionally.No one likes to feel smothered by another. Each one of us needs to live our lives independently and then share that emotional bond when you are both strong and on the
same wave length.
As LilyAnnepuppy suggested, you need the help of a professional in guiding you to the
proper path. Once you have the self esteem and love for yourself, no one will be able to
hurt you. You will be your own person and have something to bring to this relationship
that is both healthy and strong. I wish you well. xx
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