depression has many many causes not a mental ilnness
we empathize we feel for people with conditions....ya so has nothing to do wth them they didnt chose to have depression or tragedies or family losses or sadness
end the labeling
people can do what the want....if u blue i feel for u., if u miss yur cat ...i /we fee f for u .....so......not a menatl illness to me.....if i i walk alone i refuse to add insult to injry
i refuse to participate in this labeling any more than when african americans had their label now unthiinkable
it my life nto theirs....if they want to label that their bisiness
i refuse to label or judge my animlss or frineds.....who woulnd mourn after a funeral who wouldnt have test anxieity in school
rediculous....
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so i f a doctor calls be a polack or dyke or mick or N word i have to accept that because he or she is doctor and doctors are always right.....so i have be a N and go along with the p;rogram and not make waves
thats up to u
I m not acepting this line of garbage they are not my leaders and know zero about my business or professoins an d will not speak or make decisions for me ...they have no authrity in my life what so ever and not remotely qulaiifed.....speaking for my self only
i refuse to say my friend is sad and has a MI .....bulll oney....
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like cancer people ..i refuse to let cancer rule my life.....or diabetes or oro ro ....i have two kneee replacements....ya so.....what replacements....im going to live these doctors are useless....were atheles and are trained ot work and adapt and over come and comp;ensarte....met a one armed man in construction today.....what one armed man...that joe.....end of story
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any time a doctor uses the MI word around me i will call them the N word until it stops....done deal......the N word has nothign to with race....its a slur and destructive the same as queer fag dyke chink spik..whap etc.......no difference to me .........
the system is the biggst contributor to any stigma..... do i care my friend is sad or grieing or scared....of cousre.....then find a differnt word same as the N word was once standard....
i refuse to use those words with my friedns and associates.......
( i apologize to any or all i may accidentally offend- or scare- it is not meant that way----
NOOO one hurts my friends or extended family i dont care who they are- Our job is to see that everyone has a place and finds their *** value ......Joe like to collect stamps Bill likes coins and baseballs Cards, Sally love her gardening.....
once we all find people who share our interests our passions friends and our niches...
the healing begins we celebrate their happiness
and their sense of belonging...want eveyone to feel wanted and find their community
i dont say it well...
leave our people alone.......life is hard enough without having people who make it harder...
Joe my colleague in construction i met yesterday does literally have one arm......hes faster than ten workers now.......sure long hard journey ..sure depression and loss and .....sure tough lont journey ...he worked and worekd and had frineds and wif e who bleieved in him
what one armed worker? what depression.....no thats Joe....OUR worker OUR team mate OUR friend.........U hassle him U hassle USSSSSSSSS....
dont ever limit or label OUR friends................OUR friends are OUR friends.........thats just the way it is.......
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My contractor boss.....great mentor boss - has no hair from chem- has diabetes he works on his nutrition to keep under control...is 72 going strong....has to go have two shoulder surgeries but willbe back and we will all take up the slack .til hes back full force. My other boss is 67 and slowing down but i value him forall his expeiernce and his mentorship mentalit rather than the typical abusinv boss........he can be the master carpenter ill be the legs and aprpecntice and win winwinw......i see the eyes......just like most of us here.......
hes forgotten more about construction than most people ever know...his aweful grandkids walk all over the man because he so kind and have no mercy and no shame about beingt the most horrible 22 year olds totally selfish and demandint theri needs in his house constantly and no consdieration for him his kind wife or another else totaly toxic three people
No one here is like that.......Peple here are kind to a fault like my boss........toxic people i dont need ande i dont neeed near my freinds.....every day i remind Mel to forget these fools ande rememind him once again ...he the master level dontracdtor who has morre expenrden ande integity thn ten men...........forget these aweful people....
forget labels........we work *** together..............loyal to the end.....we see what people
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