Conflicted

[raesong1017]

Not really anxiety/depression related but this is the only group that I receive support/feedback from. My sister who is 17 told me yesterday that she has a weed pen under her dresser. She told me that if I told our mom she would "kill me" (not literally) and never tell me anything again. I'm so conflicted on what to do. I want to tell my mom but I don't want my sister thinking I'm not trustworthy and thinking that she can't confide in me. On the other hand I don't want my mom finding out that I knew and didn't tell her. I literally have no idea what to do!

[kenster1]

rather than being a snitch tell your sister that your worried for her.a little weed might seem harmless but more often than not it leads to other drugs.

[Zhangliqun]

I would go ahead and tell Mom, especially if you didn't promise not to. If the cops come, everyone in the house could get arrested so she's putting you all at risk, not just her.

[Hidden in reply to Zhangliqun]

my mother used to send us to the abusers and tell our stalkers where we were....totally clueless and punsih us for not being nice to them....now my mother wants to play my mother at age 64 ....always my rival always a critic.....and im supposed to do this forgiveness bs ....that is for some counselor who has been there......never.......17 years tortured by my brother and set up......who gets punished......for defending my sel and others...........mhs is on...their own.....i will protect only certian people now..........we who stick up for people always get punished....forget it