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Apparently i have no friends irl. You see from my posts how loyal friend i am. I was supporting them through everything. And now, at class the teacher is being homophobic towards her client and i told my "friends" in the group chat that this is wrong. And they attacked me. They said the client was faking it, being dramatic. "Talking about himself in plural" and "gaysexual" and "had an ed because didn't eat anything"and then" his mom didn't cook". And this is total clownery. And my "best friend" who has mental illnesses too, to whom i was sending notes while she was in madhouse, told me "calm down". And the other one said that i'm overreacting, spasming. And the first one liked the message. The other one, whom i was supporting day and night after her break up, made me a problem about the bills. For 1 lev wich in American currency is 50 cents. "A lot of People owed her money". Yes but why me, seek them. She didn't even leave tip for the waitress.

I understand i have a lot of anger in me. But really, i do everything for them, support them day and night, send them notes. And they're being so ignorant. Yes, this is ignorance, they just can't see how wrong this is and that i'm educating them for their own good. If i was in the place of the client i would take the teacher to court. Now i'm in class and i want to talk to the teacher, Absolutely respectfully, you see i'm not using slurs this time, everything is Absolutely civilized, i just want to talk with her to sort things out like adults so i stop hating her and so she understands how her behaviour can harm clients and students. This client could have suicide. This client never gave their permission to her to tell the whole class their secret. But i'm scared my "friends" would think i'm insane. If this was a normal country, the client would take her and my unimates future therapists to court. But i'm the bad guy for warning them that they can end up in court and the client might suicide because they're ignorant and homophobic.

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This is an administrative reporting offense. The school must have a policy if they promote inclusiveness. Not sure what normal is! I’m in the US where a second case of discrimination is going to the Supreme Court. That could make it legal to refuse services to LGBTQ community.

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Against_the_current in reply to Blueruth

I know, right! Meanwhile here this is normal and i'm the bad guy for telling them this can be taken to court. In a normal country, this would be taken to court. But here, i'm the crazy one for defending basic human rights and calling out homophobia. I think here they refuse services to LGBTQ+ community and erase them. Here everyone says "no, you're not gay, you're not ace, you're not whatever", "there are two genders", "why is she/he talking about herself/himself with they in plural?". Litterary the kids told her they're they and she keeps on calling them him and her. "He talked about her in plural, using them" 🤦‍♀️. This is really for court

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Blueruth in reply to Against_the_current

Oh that wouldn't land in court in this land! But the school can take action. Do they have inclusive policy statement?

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Against_the_current in reply to Blueruth

I don't even know. But probably they would do nothing and the teacher and the class will only hate me and think i'm pretty, mean and insane. I wish i could report it

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Blueruth in reply to Against_the_current

Maybe... I guess it depends. You all need to stand up as a group :)

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Against_the_current in reply to Blueruth

I'm alone in this unfortunately

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Blueruth in reply to Against_the_current

I realize that is hard!

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