Hard Time

[iwannagetbetter]

I am new here. I am having a hard time.

[Hidden]

Welcome iwannagetbetter, Is there something in particular that is giving you a hard time or is it just in general?

[iwannagetbetter in reply to Hidden]

Oh lots of things. Job loss, medical stuff, and I have trouble handling my emotions. I cry a lot. Sometimes I don't know why.

[RCCOLA]

Hi iwannagetbetter. What's important for you to know is that many people in here really care about others and that includes you. Please know that I care about you despite never meeting you. I and others know the pain and suffering and understand that sometimes, there's nothing that will comfort you. But, knowing that there are others out there pulling for you, I hope this may be an island of refuge, a place to come to and take a time-out from your pain. You're certainly not alone. Keep in mind also that when I read some of these posts, namely yours today, I am indeed thinking about you, not in a clinical sense or medication centered but in a personal one. It can get better despite feeling there's no way out. So, in the meantime, come in here and rest, try to let your pain go, even for a few minutes or even a few seconds.

[iwannagetbetter in reply to RCCOLA]

Thank you. I have never had anyone say that to me. It made me cry (I think happy tears?)

[RCCOLA in reply to iwannagetbetter]

Keep in mind that there are no exceptions, there can't be, kindness and thoughtfulness is unconditional. I and others do really care.

[Agora1]

Hi new friend. Welcome to an amazing and safe support site.We are happy you have taken your first step in going forward. xx

[iwannagetbetter in reply to Agora1]

Thanks. I can already tell people really care here.

[Hidden]

Hi, we all on here can relate to having a hard time. I hope that thru this site we can give you support and help ease your hard time; sending big hugs

[iwannagetbetter in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. I need hugs. I don't get enough.

[RemySue]

You've come to the right place. Write as often as you need to

[iwannagetbetter]

thank you so much

[Hollick]

Welcome, your post doesn't say very much? We're all experiencing a hard time, the pandemic alone has made life a struggle for many..can you elaborate? Thanks

[RCCOLA in reply to Hollick]

I don't know that anyone necessarily needs to elaborate. Perhaps down the road so they can get help but people hurting, first need to feel that they're loved, cared-for and important. Many times, people having a hard time don't even know where to start. The last thing people need, particularly while they're hurting, is to feel the expectations of others. Perhaps this is way out of left field and have no idea what I'm talking about but........just my very humble opinion. 😀

[Hollick in reply to RCCOLA]

RCCOLA, why are you responding to me, when this was intended for SOMEONE ELSE? Geez, mind your own business as they say...I was merely asking a question as the post really doesn't state much?? Was also being kind and trying to help...what makes you a professional? YEAH, it is way out in left field in my opinion, humble opinion, HUH? if you were trying to be humble, go back and read your post after everything said here..whatever..🙄

[RCCOLA in reply to Hollick]

Apologies but "we're all experiencing a hard time.......can you elaborate?" Despite having very little knowledge about anything and being someone of very low IQ, I feel that sometimes, it's good to just start off with some empathy. That's all I'm saying. Perhaps I should have articulated it better.

[Hollick in reply to RCCOLA]

RCCOLA, my apologies to you as well, when I look back at my comment to you, it really is harsh sounding😪 the truth is, that's not me, and many are feeling the pain of this journey called life..you don't need to articulate better, I think I misconstrued the point you were trying to make, again I'm sorry, and wish you well RCCOLA..take care & God bless...

[RCCOLA in reply to Hollick]

No worries Hollic, this just makes you even more cool, in a good way.

[Isinatra in reply to Hollick]

I’ve learned that reading all the comments first before I reply helps fill in some gaps and keeps me from repeating what others have all ready said. Job loss, medical problems and crying a lot filled in those gaps.

[Hollick in reply to Isinatra]

That's really good advice..

[Honestyalldatime]

Hello friend.

I am in my 40's and have been going through this rollercoaster it feels like ALONE!!!

My first steps toward being open and honest and finally saying I have some terrible issues and need help was a few days ago!

I thank you for taking THE FIRST STEP!

on here you don't have to know anyone personally, You can ask for help, and let go of WORRIES, and share all of the celebrated wins to come!!!

I feel like I'm an AA leader. lol I'm not!

Just keep coming back. I just found out that I almost messed up by not returning daily because I got my get out of a slump support the other day and felt like I didn't need to come back until I needed more help!

In typing this to you, I have realized that it is my obligation (not yours) to be here for those still to come and that is why I need to be here everyday !

THANK YOU!!!!!!

🤗 HUGGS