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Should my friend be mad at me for being honest?

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My friend messaged me and tells me to be honest with her so I said okay she told me that her husband told her that he was talking to his guy friends about strip clubs and that her husband friends know he's married that they should take him to the strip club but she's mad because she thinks it's disrespectful to talk about strip clubs and she asked me how I thought about it and I said I wouldn't be mad because guys talk about stupid things all the time that she should not worry about it and that she should be mad if he went to the strip club. She got mad over my honest and told me she believes that only single people should be talking about that stuff not married people to their friends and I said ok and then she kept saying yes and I said okay then a few minutes later she apologized to me but why to ask me to be honest with you, if your just gonna get mad like I'm not married, I'm not in a relationship so why would I freak out about something a guy said to his friends like guys say things to there guy friends but her marriage with her husband is very weird and I hate being in the middle of it because she overreacts over everything he does. I honestly think she wanted me to agree with her because she always thinks she's right and she thinks everything is about her but honestly why get mad over so dumb. To be honest, am I in the right? or is she freaking out over nothing or do you guys agree with her? I need your guy's opinions.

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It sounds like your friend is not happy about who her husband friends are. Single friends who go to strip clubs would make me feel uneasy. That's just me. Maybe she just needs from you as her friend is to be supportive and understand how she feels.🤔 Her getting angry with you is out of line to. I hope you both can forgive each other and move on.🙂

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Ilovepugs123 in reply to Tara52

She always overreacts over something so dumb and she always wants me to agree with her but this time I didn't agree with her because I'm not married and I think guys talk about stupid stuff all the time doesn't mean they are going to go the strip club. Plus her husband tells her everything and if she doesn't like anything he says she messages me asking me for my opinion which I shouldn't be in the middle of her marriage about stupid things like that. like i can tell shes not mad at me anymore but like its annoying when she wants to plan something with me and nothing happens and it just waste my time.

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