Just another rant,yes i'm vulnerable to gossip.

[secrets22]

Unsubstantiated gossip ruins lives,and gossipers are the cruellest of people,but some people dont care,they want you to fail & gloat about it,they know little about me & still they persist in saying untruths.I prefer to keep my own counsel.

Some people are lethal and think they have a right to know your business,I dont bother people,I only say a hello to people in this vicinity ,and leave it at that.

People in glass houses should not throw stones,for if i was to say the bad things done, and said about David and I,you would be shocked,or perhaps not.? I catch people out on so many levels,and it is sheer evil,do they really think i am so naive and gullible to believe them.

The trouble today is,so many are filled with envy and jealousy,and if they can put you down they will.

Its a sad world full of some nasty people.

[fauxartist]

Gossip is cruel and often done by envy, jealousy, ignorance, and untruths. At first, we can be hurt when made fun of or lied about...but one thing that was said to me a long time ago and has always stuck: 'consider the source'. Often it's the miserable, unhappy, and ignorant that do petty things to try and run someone else down. Who are they to do so, and what makes them so important to our lives... consider the facts... they really don't matter. And anyone who wants to participate is no different. Once the initial sting subsides...then reason and rational will set in... how sad for them to feel this is a way to somehow make their pathetic lives more important than they really are. Karma... what goes around comes around and every dog has it's day.

[Hidden in reply to fauxartist]

I believe in karma what gets me is how too faced people are calling people behind there backs then nice to there faces I've even done it but it's more them.starting it and kinda getting me to agree, unfortunetely there's people in our life's like nebours family even we find faults with but have to put up with even tho we would rather not at all have them in our life's, 🤗😻

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I have seen it happen many times cruel people reaping what they have sown when life gets them!

How are you and Prince Pixie getting on?

We are fine here and have made a firm decision to start house hunting in the new year as we feel it's time for a fresh start somewhere else and also I will be restarting job hunting after the Christmas and new year festivities at well as I have decided to take a break as it all became too much.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Hi cat I'm.a bit better thanks glad your all ok and making plans pixie likes the bed in new position near the wall lot warmer lol he's had chicken and looking out window I have been sneezing all day think.cold and was I'll with a tummy bug yesterday that time of year when germs are ripe, I'm feeling more positive about my house situation as my Jeff prince horoscope is good big changes on the home front new beginnings there's indicated delays last year right through so true you should type it in get free weekly forcast I'd like a year one but can't pay as don't have pay Pal were off to sleep now hope you have good Sunday night night 🤗😻

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Baby sends her regards to Prince Pixie and is well and looking forward to her treats tomorrow!

Been out for a walk and a chat with my sister in law round the neighbourhood and talked about plans to move and talked her through them and she said how we had really really thought this through and wished us the best of luck with it!

I said how I have paused job searching until January which she says is the right thing to do as well to try again when I feel ready.

Had a lovely pub carvery out this lunchtime with my sister in law and we have sorted out a bag of leftovers for Baby for her dish and she meowed when she saw us coming back from the pub!

Baby thinks that when she sees us she is going to get fed that's why she meows!

[Midori]

It is a very sad world when folk gossip, especially when they speculate about other people randomly, because their poisonous minds have nothing better to do.

It can ruin folk's reputations totally unjustly to have stories made up about them, because, like chinese whispers, they grow and distort the more they are talked about.

I think gossip should become a criminal offence, personally.

Cheers, Midori

[Hidden in reply to Midori]

Many years ago I was working at a job and I lived on my own in a flat and at lunchtimes I would have lunch in the canteen in the building there for some company with other members of staff.

One lunchtime I had brought in a pre made sandwich from Tesco and other members of staff had a go at me and I became ever so upset when I got told off by them like a naughty child for my choices!

Well OK perhaps I could have benefitted from losing weight and eating better but it wasn't their place to have told me that and its entirely up to me to make my own choices as us adults have free will even if the choices only harm us and are irrational they are ours to make and should be respected.

Another colleague had said to me how those criticising should get their own lives then they wouldn't have to interfere in other peoples!

[fauxartist in reply to Midori]

Gossip is cowardly and deceitful. But it sells papers and fuels destruction of peoples lives. The Daily rags are testament to that. Airing dirty laundry was a term used when I was a kid, and this thing was what got the inquisition fueled in the Middle Ages. It can be dangerous.

[Hidden in reply to Midori]

Hi midora I had a reputation when younger with my name been Mandy I got nick named randy Mandy and it taken the wrong way I wasn't at all randy I was very shy back then some don't realise how a thoughtless laughable to them.comment can ruin someone's life hope you are well 🤗😻🌟

[Midori in reply to Hidden]

I'm fine thanks, hope you and Pixie are too!

[Hidden in reply to Midori]

Good yes we're going in town well not pixie me and mam pixie is snug hope you have good Xmas and new year 🤗😻

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