Should I delete him?

[Ilovepugs123]

Last Saturday I met the guy that I liked, but he tried to have sex with me and I told him I wasn't comfortable with it and he understood so we ended up watching youtube video's he helped me with math. When I got home I told him that I had a great time and he said he did too, we were doing okay but then I asked him Sunday if we were more than friends and he said we are just friends and that he wants to get to know me more and I told him I understand. Ever since Sunday I haven't heard from him at all I messaged him today and hasn't messaged me I think he is ignoring me or wants anything to do with me or maybe he needs time I don't know...He did this to me 3 weeks ago where he went the distance with me but then he messaged me the next day but this time it's different. I like this guy a lot but honestly, I feel like this is a game that he's just not ready for a relationship or he doesn't know what he wants and it's so annoying, I just really wish he would just tell me the truth so I can move on but I guess I'm never going to get that I don't know what to do I honestly think he wants sex but I honestly thought he was different but nope he's just like the other guys.

Should I delete him off Snapchat or Wait till he messages me? Or give him till tomorrow if he doesn't answer then delete him?

[Ilovepugs123]

He finally messaged me but he isn't messaging me back and I messaged him asking if I did something or if he wants me to leave him alone and hasn't answered at all.

[Ilovepugs123]

ok i will message you

[UkyoCoanccy]

Well, in my opinion, I think he just wants a special friend for casual sex.If he really feels something serious, he could answered your msj just to not make you feel bad. I do not think he did not answer because he is shy because if that was the case he wouldn't ask for sex. You didn't give him what he wanted so he is not going to be as close as you would like, unless you show him that you want the same.

That is my opinion. But thing her is that you really like him so it is very hurtful. I think that you need to talk to him and ask him what he really wants from you. That way you are not going to be so stressed and sad about him.

I hope you are better. And I hope that I am wrong. I have been in you position and it is to painful when you really like someone and that person do not feel the same or that he just want sex.

Hugs

[Ilovepugs123]

Thank you for the advice, I really like him a lot and I just need to know the truth so I can move on and how he is acting is not okay and he messaged me saying hi after I send him a message first but then when I send him two messages he doesn't reply, he doesn't even look at them and its so annoying.

[ElephantsHear]

Hi Love Pugs. Someone told me once we see what we want to see in people. I wish I could shield you from any pain, but he may not know what he wants right now or he may be too immature. I don’t say that in a negative way. I agree with ChavivLeon, you deserve the best! Maybe he’s destined to miss out on a great person- you! Wish you the best!

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to ElephantsHear]

Thank you for the advice :). I do deserve better.

[Tara52]

Definitely delete him.

[hypercat54]

I think you are moving too fast for him as men can be notorious for easily being scared off. You asked him if you were more than friends and he said you are friends and that he wants to get to know you better.

My advice is to treat him as just a friend to have good times with and to go at his pace. If he tries to have sex again remind him you are 'just' friends though. Take it slow and easy and see what happens.

No disrespect to ChavivLeon but I think it would be the wrong thing to do to lay feelings on him at this stage as you risk scaring him off.

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to hypercat54]

Thank you for the advice, I agree but he was the one who came up with the whole relationship thing.