I just don't get it

[Ilovepugs123]

Two or three weeks ago I asked my friend if she had anything she wanted me to sell for her because soon I will have a yard sale and she said that she has a lot of clothes and I said when can you bring them? She said "Whenever she goes to work", I said okay she was supposed to come on a weekday to bring the clothes but apparently she doesn't have time so I stopped asking about the clothes and told her just let me know when you want to bring them and she said okay but I started to distance myself from her because she tells me one thing then it changes so Today comes and she messages me telling me that her mom has all the clothes that she wants to sell that she was going to go this weekend to go get the clothes so I replied back saying when are you going to bring them? she said she doesn't know because she works nonstop, what makes no sense is why message me saying you have clothes at your mom's house and that your going to your mom's house this weekend to I don't know when I'm busy with work, It makes no sense and I know shes been lying to me about her clothes because she told me that she had her clothes organized at her house and then all of a sudden its I need to go through them and organize them again to my mom has the clothes that I want to sell like why lie to me about your clothes like just be honest with me instead of changing the story over and over again. It makes me mad and gives me anxiety because don't waste my time or lie to me just because you noticed me distance myself away from you, like come on. I don't believe her anymore or trust them at all and honestly, I have been telling her for a long time to bring her clothes over but its always excuses after excuses, and what makes me mad also is she asks me when I want her to bring them and then she says she will try or she will and never does like don't ask me when I want you to come when you don't show up at all. I'm just annoyed and honestly just don't know what else to do because she isn't a good friend, I don't message her at all anymore or tell her anything anymore so it's like she tries to find ways to talk to me but can't keep managing, to be honest.

[Agora1]

Hi Ilovepugs123 We can never fully understand what goes on in someone else's mind.

When it starts to impinge on your own sanity and you feel frustrated

and getting anxious, it's time to pull the plug on the issue.

Whatever her game is, it's not worth you getting upset over.

You cannot control her actions but can control your emotions.

Drop the issue and should she call you again about the clothes

politely tell her that you are sorry, it's too late. You have everything planned

out now.

Do some breathing and try to relax.

These are those little glitches in life that come about at times. We must

learn to let go. It's not worth your emotional health. xx

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to Agora1]

Thank you for the advice

[Shnookie in reply to Ilovepugs123]

AGora is 💯 % correct.

[hypercat54 in reply to Agora1]

Couldn't have said it better myself Agora dear! x