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Feeling a little lonely. Can I make some new friends?

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My sister came home for a few days to spend some time with me. yesterday she went back to her college and I'm feeling deserted. This usually happens when my sister goes back after coming home for some days. it seems I can't bear the feeling of separation from my sister. My sister is very supportive, she always puts a smile on my face. Recently she gifted me a 3-month Spotify premium, now every time I use it, it reminds me of her😁.

I was hoping to find some new friends here. thank youπŸ€—

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PaulyJoe87

Hi Hidden ,Nice to meet you! How are you?

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Hello, nice to meet you too,I'm fineπŸ‘. How are you?

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Agora1

Hi football-love, I'm glad you have a sister who is supportive for you.Give yourself time to interact with the great people on this site. You will

feel a connection with others your same age going through separation anxiety

as well.

I'm glad that you are here with us on this safe caring site. :) xx

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covidZ

You have found a friend here .Tell us about your self . Me ? I have finally gotten to be an old man . I just wait to kick those darn kids off my lawn . (kidding) So whats up?

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Hey new friend. How are you? I was watching a champions league match right now. I won't wander anywhere near your lawnπŸ˜‚πŸ˜œ.

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You Crack me up! Thank you for your young wit !

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covidZβ€’ in reply tocovidZ

No disrespect to the young !

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Hey. I've got a bet on Bayern Munich to win tonight. Are you watching that match? They finally got a breakthrough up one goal!

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Bayern won 4 - 0. Successful bet for youπŸ‘. I was watching the Chelsea game, they also won 4-0.

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Glad Bayern turned it on towards the end. Sounds like a good Chelsea match. I support Villa, so no champ league there😟. Who do you support?

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yeah, Chelsea controlled the game well but lukaku got injured. hope it's not a serious injury. I support Chelsea.

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Chelsea shouldn't have any problems on Saturday. Will go for a 3-0 win

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autumnmarie5

I can relate to this!! I am very close to my younger brothers and since I moved out it was hard to not be with them all the time. That's nice of your sister to give you the Spotify premium and now y'all will be able to call each other to catch up as well. I am looking to make new friends on here too! Hope all gets better for you 😊

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Hi autumnmarie5, you found a new friend. How are you? Btw I had an hour long phone call with my sis earlier but it felt like it was only a minuteπŸ˜….

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autumnmarie5

I am good, thank you!! That's good that you just had a phone call with your sister.. I am sure that helped a little bit. How far away is she? Maybe you can make a weekend trip into going to visit her? 😊

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She's not that far away, it takes about 2 hrs to reach her. She will be coming back at the end of the month. Don't laugh when I tell you that she's always back within two weeks, just for me😜 and still I miss her. I think I need to get a bit stronger and accept that she can't always be with me.😁

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No I won't laugh because I completely understand!! Growing up I always struggled with anxiety and just getting anxious in certain social situations and one of the only things that made me feel better and more confident was when my brothers were there with me. I know it sounds stupid because I am the older sister but they were like my built in best friends.. I get the way you are feeling completely!!!! Hopefully she has a good time away at college though :)

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I'm also struggling with social anxiety and I understand how helpful it is when you have your brother/sister around you. I'm trying to adapt myself to situations when my sister won't be with me during such situations. btw I have a test tomorrow and I think I will be studying the whole night tonight to complete my syllabus.

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Hb2003

Hello friend πŸ˜„

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hiπŸ‘‹, how are you? hope you're doing well

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I’m doing ok

ohhh this is so cute also i like her gift we can be friends !! i feel lonely too

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Heyy πŸ‘‹, how are you?

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I'm really good how are you

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how was your day

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Nothing special till now but will be going to a friend's birthday tonight.

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awesome!!

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Great! I'm doing really well, thank you

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😁😁😁

Aww, That's so cute. I'm also a big sister and i just came back from college to check my lil sis and to take a break because moving out and starting college is really overwhelming. It's normal to feel this way and really cute. Probably you're going to college too soon?

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Yes I will be in college next year

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Great, what will you study? Also feel free to reach out to me

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I will be studying computer science. Ok I will, thank you very much😁

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