Just for today

[Mrspjsmom]

Once again my husband isn't speaking to me. I didn't go to the State Fair yesterday because the arthritis in my back had flared up so badly I couldn't walk without pain. But I refuse to let this upset me. Just for today I will relax and read if I'm in pain. Just for today I will lavish attention on my dog and cat who love me unconditionally. Just for today I will only take care of myself. When tomorrow comes I will see how I feel. Until then I will live one minute, or hour, or day at a time.

[Starrlight]

Smart plan.

[hypercat54]

Tell your 'orrible 'usband to sling his hook. Have a great day my friend and enjoy your peace. Remember you have a right to put yourself and your own needs first when required.

[Roxylox in reply to hypercat54]

Your way of expressing yourself tickled my funny bone. Like 'enry 'iggins from My Fair Lady!

[hypercat54 in reply to Roxylox]

Ah 'Enry 'Iggins, know him well x

[Isinatra]

Just for today , one day at a time is also repeated in the rooms of AA. A person doesn’t have to be alcoholic to receive their benefits. Those words help me reduce the stress of life. I hope they help you, too, Mrspjsmom. ☺️

[Roxylox]

Frankly Mrspjsmom I would not stir out even if I had a minor cold, never mind excruciating pain.

You are right to look after you!

[Mrspjsmom]

Thank you everyone. I have struggled my entire life at putting myself first. At 57 years old it's time to start doing that.

[Arymretep]

Good for you, I think maybe someone needs to grow up 🤔

[Agora1]

Mrspjs Enjoy your "me time". You so deserve it xx

[pam4him]

I'm sorry he seems to be pouting. We can only do what our physical limitations allow. Good for you for knowing your limits. I would consider his not speaking to you as time to enjoy your pet cuddles and reading while relieving your pain. One minute, hour, or day at a time is all any one can do. Prayers for relief, and understanding from your husband with your physical limitations.