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This might seem random but I was just curious...

Does anybody out there have a song or song lyric that describes their anxiety and/or depression?

Last night I was listening to some music before I went to sleep and realized how comforting it was to hear a lyric that described my anxiety. It made me feel almost like I was talking to somebody who perfectly understood what I was thinking without me even saying anything. I was just curious if anybody had a song that did for them, and if so what it was.

For me it's:

Come around - Papa Roach - "Right now you don't want to show it because you don't think that anyone will notice. Until you tell someone you'll feel like you're the only one."

"I know we're not alright. It's always darkest just before the light. I know your silence is a deadly sound. But I'll be there when you come around."

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Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14

REM..... Everybody Hurts

Dire Straights... Why Worry

Disturbed... Sound of Silence

Freddie Mercury.... Great Pretender

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Roxylox in reply to Dolphin14

Why Worry is another one of mine actuallyThe lyric that most describes my issues in that song is:

Some people can be bad, the things they do the thimgs they say

Desperado, why don't you come to your senses? You been out ridin' fences for so long now

Oh, you're a hard one

But I know that you got your reasons

These things that are pleasin' you

Can hurt you somehow

Don't you draw the Queen of Diamonds, girl

She'll beat you if she's able

You know the Queen of Hearts is always your best bet

Now, it seems to me some fine things

Have been laid upon your table

But you only want the ones that you can't get

Desperado, oh, you ain't gettin' no younger

Your pain and your hunger, they're drivin' you home

And freedom, oh freedom, well that's just some people talkin'

Your prison is walking through this world all alone

Don't your feet get cold in the winter time?

The sky won't snow and the sun won't shine

It's hard to tell the night time from the day

You're losin' all your highs and lows

Ain't it funny how the feeling goes away?

Desperado, why don't you come to your senses?

Come down from your fences, open the gate

It may be rainin', but there's a rainbow above you

You better let somebody love you (let somebody love you)

You better let somebody love you

Before it's too late

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply to

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That once was my "theme" song. I can so relate.

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Marshall64 in reply to

Is that about depression? I figured it was about a guy that needs to find someone as he should be done sewing his seeds .

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Not as far as my interpretation goes, Marshall64.

We all have our own take on the lyrics of any given song. Desperado, performed by the Eagles (my favorite band) resinates with me for a few reasons, but I identify mostly with the "walking through this world all alone."

We can have it all, but still feel very alone.

This was the last song the Eagles performed in concert with Glenn Frey. It closed out their show in Bossier City, Louisiana on July 29, 2015, the last stop on their History of the Eagles tour. Frey died about six months later.

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Pinkie56 in reply to Marshall64

That's the beauty of art. You make your own interpretations. If you see a guy who needs to settle down, you're right. If see someone who is sad, you're right. If you see a guy who needs to move away from the country into the city, you're right.

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💙😪

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Isinatra

Bon Jovi, Wanted, Dead or Alive. I sleep, sometimes it’s not for days,

The people I meet will always go their separate ways,

Sometimes you tell the day by the bottle,

And times when you’re alone, well, all you do is think.

I ride a steel horse…

in reply to Isinatra

Love this, Isinatra.

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Hb2003

Shallow ❤️

I'm falling

In all the good times I find myself longing for change

And in the bad times, I fear myself

I'm off the deep end, watch as I dive in

I'll never meet the ground

Yes, indeed. "The Wrong Side Of Heaven" Five Finger Death Punch.. It speaks to my PTSD related anxiety and depression. .Lyric: "Eyes wide open I stand alone, I'm no hearo and I'm not made of stone . "

I'd post a link to the song but I'm not sure that's allowed.

EndUser13 profile image
EndUser13

NIN

Something I can never have

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234

youtu.be/yjoPWxmOCtc

in reply to Sillysausage234

Nice post. It brings to mind two other Pink Floyd songs I thought of listing. "Comfortably Numb and Wish You Were Here".. Thanks for jogging my memory.✌

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Sillysausage234 in reply to

Your welcome love them all too really got me through some tough times 🎶

in reply to Sillysausage234

Same here. They still do.

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to Sillysausage234

Me too. As you know I am a big Pink Floyd fan and especially love comfortably numb. It really resonates with me.

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Sillysausage234 in reply to hypercat54

🎣

Marshall64 profile image
Marshall64 in reply to hypercat54

Any Roger Waters song from the Wall onwards..

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to Marshall64

I liked the earlier stuff better.

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Marshall64 in reply to hypercat54

Me too..

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hypercat54 in reply to Marshall64

I saw them live twice in London. The first time was mainly Dark Side of the Moon and the second was The Wall. Fantastic.

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Marshall64 in reply to hypercat54

I remember you saying that. Lucky dog. 😋

Google Sigma 242. A guy recorded them live in 1975. Pretty good recording coming from a cassette player. Interesting story too..

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hypercat54 in reply to Marshall64

Yes I will thank you. Cassette player hey? That took me back.... 😁

Marshall64 profile image
Marshall64 in reply to hypercat54

He smuggled the recorder in a wheelchair. He wasn't handicapped....

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hypercat54 in reply to Marshall64

Wow!

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metalminded in reply to Marshall64

I found some great live recordings from the mid 70s at a record store back in the 90s, all boots but on CDs and they sound decent. One is just before DSOTM was released and they played pieces for the first time.

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san_ray70 in reply to hypercat54

Feeling Kind of Crazy by Katy Mellua is mine and my husbands song, ever since we met.It was the first C.D. he bought me 17 years ago.

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Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

Beautiful song. Gorgeous animals

❤️🐬

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

Glad you liked it dolphin no 14 ….reminds me of my journey and that there is a way back to the top when you’ve been drowning

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Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

There was a line in there... where were you... that makes me emotional. Sometimes no one can see that we are drowning. It's a lonely place.

Yes, there is a way back to the top. I'm happy you found your way.

May you continue on your positive journey. Take care of yourself, there is only one you

❤️🐬

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

Namaste 🙏….thank you very much …you too 🐬

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Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

Namaste

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ZNHurston

Hometown Glory -- Adele

It speaks to how I feel like I'm just wandering through life in a fog most of the time.

"Is there anything I can do for you dear?

Is there anyone I could call?"

"No and thank you, please Madam

I ain't lost, just wandering"

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mrmonk

"The Fear" - Pulp ("This is the sound of someone losing the plot / Making out that they're okay when they're not...")

"Every Single Night" - Fiona Apple ("I just wanna feel everything")

"This Is a Low" - Blur ("This is a low / But it won't hurt you / When you're alone / It will be there with you"

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Dolphin14 in reply to mrmonk

Nice to see you:)

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54

You can't beat Leonard Cohen for that. He was so depressed he made me feel a bit better!

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Marshall64

Supertramp

- Hide In Your Shell

- Lord Is It Mine

- Even in the Quietest Moments

Roxylox profile image
Roxylox

Yes, Mine is Don't let me be Misunderstood by The Animals.

People constantly misconstrue things I say, and don't like or trust me, it's like I'm a repellent. I'm lucky to have a good husband and children, but outside of that have no friends where I live.

I think I have a touch of Social anxiety, shops in particular make me nervous.

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Wooded_Trail in reply to Roxylox

Very good one!

Ed Sheeran’s Save Myself

I gave all my oxygen to people that could breathe

I gave away my money and now we don't even speak

I drove miles and miles, but would you do the same for me?

Oh, honestly?

Offered off my shoulder just for you to cry upon

Gave you constant shelter and a bed to keep you warm

They gave me the heartache and in return I gave a song

It goes on and on

Life can get you down so I just numb the way it feels

I drown it with a drink and out of date prescription pills

And all the ones that love me they just left me on the shelf

My farewell

So before I save someone else, I've got to save myself

I gave you all my energy and I took away your pain

'Cause human beings are destined to radiate or dream

What line do we stand upon 'cause from here looks the same?

And only scars remain

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samack

So many good ones. A newer one, Patty Griffin What Now. One line of a Don Henley song Brambling Rose, she 's a good hearted woman nobody knows.

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AnxiousValleyGal

Yes! So mine would be from Lana del Rey and it is “ I'm tired of feeling like I'm fucking crazyI'm tired of driving 'till I see stars in my eyes

I look up to hear myself saying, baby

Too much I strive, I just ride

I hear the birds on the summer breeze, I drive fast

I am alone in the night

Been tryin' hard not to get in trouble, but I

I've got a war in my mind

I just ride

Just ride, I just ride, I just ride“

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chills1953

Pink Floyd "Wearing the Inside Out". Richard Wright wrote this song after emerging from years long drug addiction. He describes depression and the pain he felt all those years. But the best part is that the song also talks about reconnecting and recovering. youtube.com/watch?v=T7wgOlt...

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DodgeDhanda

My first song was to mourn my mother who passed when I was 4 but it was a few years before "It must be love" by Madness .

Then in the 90s along come R.E.M & my next track which is "Everybody hurts" & it's a well known song & I always shed a tear now for the person I was when my thoughts & feelings were so low.

However the track that I want to reflect me, my thoughts & my soul is by R.E.M again & its "Shiny Happy People" .

Everything about the song & of course the video is for me personally a positive.

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lewis1

'Tears of a clown@

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Rayblade900

Hi Autumn-bibliophile. Immediately I thought of this tune reading your post and thought... hmm wonder if this person likes rock and then reading further you mention Papa Roach 😀For me it's definitely "Five Finger Deathpunch" and "I'm A Little Bit Off Today". Sums up how I sometimes feel and that onlookers don't have a clue what's going on in our heads!

Best wishes.

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BTCCET

Kris Kristoffersons "Sunday morning coming down" just about sums up the way I feel most days!

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blueslite

This is an interesting post! So many songs posted here and many of them are relatable for me, including yours. It's funny but the song I used to relate to so much was one that I was hearing the lyrics wrong. LOL When I found what the real lyrics were I didn't relate to them at all. It's a song by Fleetwood Mac - "I'm So Afraid". The particular lyrics, the way I heard them, were "So afraid of slippin' and falling back down". The reason was because I had been severely depressed in the past, I had reached a state of total despair, and was always afraid I'd fall down again, I'd go over the edge and maybe never come back the next time. But the actual lyrics were "So afraid I slip and I fall and I die" which I didn't really relate to. Of course, you could say that my lyrics were very similar in meaning - not physically dying but mentally and/or emotionally dying. Anyway, my lyrics don't even sound like the real ones but as I said, I had that fear of repeating the past and so that must be why I imagined them to say that.

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metalminded

One song I connected with from a very early age and don’t know why. I still love it and now more than 40 years later it still feels the same.

Alone Again (Naturally) by Gilbert O’Sullivan.

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Rayblade900

Just listened to "Come Around" and read the lyrics. Very well written and accurate on how some of us feel and what we go through that others cannot see!Never been a fan of Papa Roach, but this is a good track and not heard it before.

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Spooky99

Tom Petty..Last dance with Maryjane

Tiered of screwing up, tiered of going down, tiered of myself, tiered of this town

I can think of two songs. I really feel for Demi Lovato and Britney Spears. It's hard enough to receive a diagnosis that you have bipolar disorder, let alone that the whole world has to read all about your personal life and get all the juicy details in People magazine. And a lot of people don't even want to try to understand your point of view and would rather just dismiss you as a crazy person. Here's Anyone by Demi Lovato. youtu.be/jW3aJ-3SEVU

The second song I have in mind is from this singer Darren Hayes, formerly part of Savage Garden. I feel for this guy too. He had the courage to finally come out and tell the world he happens to be gay. And boy, did he get the crap for that. A lot of online bullying and harassment. I actually sing this song to myself when I'm severely depressed and feel like there's no hope. I found out somewhere on line, and I'm not sure if this is the truth or not, that supposedly he wrote this song right after the terrible death of Michael Jackson. For all of us Michael Jackson fans it was hard to take. I hope Michael is at peace now and no I don't believe he messed around with kids, I think Michael Jackson was being framed. So here is Black Out the Sun by Darren Hayes.youtu.be/09XKnXX5Ue0

I have so many good songs I’ve found lately :)

Just like you by NF

“You ever think about what it would be like

If the clouds were gone and you could see light?

If the door was open would you take flight

Or just close the curtains up and stay inside?

Take a walk with me, take a risk with me

I'm scared too and it gets so tempting

When you're so empty, to disown everything you hold

Dearly, when you know

Clearly, you've been so buried, in your own

Fairy tale, the soul's tearing bunch of holes in me

I relate to it, but in case you been thinking no one does

Here's a great theory

Throw a hail Mary, let your mind fly

To the sunrise, could be so scary

Make your faith vary, feel the pain glaring

But the weight carried ain't in vain hear me (hear me)

Just in case my car goes off the highway

Or the plane that I get on decides that it's my last day

I want you to know when you're alone and you feel afraid

You're not the only person in the world that isn't okay

There's millions of us just like you, like you, like you

Just like you, like you”

And I also love this song from Billy Talent “I beg to Differ”

“You struggle every day but no one sees

And trouble eats away your self-esteem

You're so afraid to face tomorrow

The only thing that waits is sorrow

You can't see the light from behind the curtains

When you feel so lost, that you don't belong

Well I beg to differ

As time goes on this will get better

And you can't go wrong if your will is strong

Enough under pressure

As time goes on this will get better

This will get better

Don't suffer through the dark days

Burn up all the barricades

Turn and face the pain to let it go

No matter what they all say

You can find another way

Never have to battle this alone”

And this is my absolute favourite song right now. It’s an EDM song by my favourite artist. It’s called fractures by illenium and I interpret it in relation to trauma and wanting to make steps to move out of that trauma and heal.

“Burning everything I know

Desperate for a change

Crashing down the ancient roads

Past our yesterday

Maybe there is hunger in my blood

Screaming out loud for what I want

See me running full speed at it

Shattering, collide

Call it post-traumatic

Now it's do or die

Coming after tiny fractures

Feeding frenzy is in my brain

I'm hopeful every day

I gotta get it while we are still young enough to break

We're finally not afraid“”

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Tara52

Yrs have you ever heard the song by Peter and Gordon "A World Without Love" ?

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Pinkie56

They're coming to take me away he he ha Simon & Garfunkel Sounds of Silence. Hello darkness my old friend I've come to see you again.

The Beatles The Fool on the Hill -- sees the sun coming up.

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Always2ndbest

Papa Roach has great lyrics. I can always relate to them. The song Nobody Knows by Pink is amazing. And also her song Sober. Somebody To Love by Queen really hits me hard.

And as far as my relationship with alcohol Kenny Chesney has a line that says "it's always your favorite sins that do you in." "One is one too many, one more is never enough".

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Pinkie56

This one is from Creedance Clearwater Revival (CCR) As usual I'm gonna get the wording wrong but here goes: "I might commit suicide tomorrow but tonight I feel no pain."

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Stinkpot

I Am A Rock- Simon and Garfunkel.

Boulevard of broken dreams by Green Day. ❤️

Sleeping with sirens - how if feels to be lostBeartooth - disease

BMTH - teardrops

NF - Mansion

Caskets - falling apart

Middle class rut - Busy being born

Badflower - jester, family, and ghost

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