I need your advice with what’s making me anxious!

[Thealchemist99]

Recently i’ve been back with my boyfriend. We’ve been apart for two months but we talked and set new perspective of the relationship. But since we’re back and some ideas have been killing me from the inside. I’m concerned and anxious all the time on when he will call me, and whether he’ll flirt with me or not. I’m been asking myself what if he woke up this morning and didn’t say i looked beautiful, what if this day passes and he never calls, only texts. I’ve been going crazy and i love him so much but what should i do to stop these thoughts? What is your idea of a healthy relationship?

[Thealchemist99]

I only dream of an ideal relationship and it’s not working that way!!!

[Chase888]

A relationship should be 50 50 but I never found that but luckily I never fell in love.

Nobody can be everything to one person.

What you want at 20 is not always what you want at 30 and etc.

It's best to have more friends because keep analysising your relationship will have more of an influence than you think.

TBH, I look back at the long term relationships I had and know 100per cent I was lucky not to have married any of them.

Sorry if I have not given you a cosy answer and take care of yourself and people close who care about you.

[cbgrace1980]

I think a healthy relationship exists when you don't need to rely on someone to make you feel important or validated. Putting that trust in other people will usually leave us disappointed. It's good to believe in yourself and know that you are worthy of the relationship, that you deserve to be texted and called, but that if that doesn't happen, you will be okay. I think sitting down with him and letting him know your fears might help. But you can't let your fears control your actions and reactions to him. Hugs to you!