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Just processing about the ego and how to conquer negativity

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Sometimes my thoughts take me into making up scenarios like what if this happens and they find out I am really like this because of my shortcomings or mistakes, weaknesses and I go into detail about the horror of it. Well you know we can’t change the past so don’t go there use what is learned to work with to try to gain more motivation to complete dreams small and large and better ourselves each day and there will be the days that seem we are going backwards but maybe actually we are just shifting up into the new advanced levels so it’s harder and we struggle more but we are not failing, it will just take time. And the ego, that thinking that loves to focus on the self, which messes with us, becomes tamer when we start learning to be still and focus elsewhere.

Off to work on my dreams my beautiful people! ❤️ love you 😍

P.s. when you catch yourself wanting or worrying or feeling inferior or superior or having contestant mind (comparing) then say to yourself , “that is a function of my unconscious conditional mind.” And separate yourself and your being from those thoughts.

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Thank you. I am very touched by your words.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

Hi my friend! How are things going? Are you taking care of yourself? ❤️

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

Hiya Starrlight,

One minute at a time. What an inspirational post. I found this and Sophie's Mother Theresa quote today. I needed them both.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

Yes good for you- one minute at a time-you just helped me remember to breathe, thank you. Oh I love Mother Theresa so!

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

I never followed her work at all. I just visited that post as Sophie is so sweet and I was curious. Then I read it over and over.

I am trying so hard to find some way I can contribute what I can to moments of hope in our lives. Not easy for me. My post (below) is for that. Sure would like it if something / anything occurs to you to add there.

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hlacovara

Very insightful 💜

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Kkimm

Great advice and beautiful photo

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Starrlight in reply to Kkimm

Thanks Kkimm

Beautiful message thank you Sarrlight :) You really seem to be very upbeat. I'm proud of you❤❤❤

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Starrlight in reply to Believeinyourself123

That means a lot to me thanks Believeinyourself... how r u?

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Believeinyourself123 in reply to Starrlight

You're very welcome. I can see you shining like true star you already are.

I'm doing better. Thank you kindly for asking. ❤❤❤

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Starrlight in reply to Believeinyourself123

❤️

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Hb2003

I love this thank you for everything ❤️❤️❤️

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Starrlight in reply to Hb2003

Thanks Hb! ❤️ Blessings to you

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Hb2003 in reply to Starrlight

love you ❤️❤️

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Starrlight in reply to Hb2003

Awwww 😍 me too

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Hb2003 in reply to Starrlight

🫂

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Dubba61

Thankyou, Starr, I'm trying to work on those things too. A good quote to remember.

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Starrlight in reply to Dubba61

Yes! Best to you

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