Practicing Detachment for JOY

When you are growing in detachment you will become healthier, happier and your life will become a life of pure joy.

TGIF everyone ❤️☮️🌸🧘🏻‍♀️🕉🙏

[Hb2003]

That is true ❤️

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Good morning my little 👼. You are so wise and sweet Hiba ❤️❤️❤️

[Hb2003 in reply to Hidden]

Aww you are too 😄❤️

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Thank you Hiba🙏❤️❤️❤️. The air is so crisp n fresh over here 🤗😌😌

[Hb2003 in reply to Hidden]

Oh yes ❤️

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How’s it going over there? You got breakfast and all 😋🤗?

[Hb2003 in reply to Hidden]

Yes I did I ate some fruit even though my teeth hurt from the braces

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Fruits are great and I bet meringue pie doesn’t hurt your teeth from braces 😆😆

[Hb2003 in reply to Hidden]

🤣🤣🤣

[Hb2003 in reply to Hidden]

It’s been good so far

[Hidden in reply to Hb2003]

Glad to hear that sweetie 🥰

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👌👌🙏🙏❤❤

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You got the gist always buddy 👍🙏

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So at peace we will be when we dont have to depend on anything or anyone but ourselves to feel joyful

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That’s right. The moment you attach to external matters, you already set yourself up for a life long of sufferings. Kingdom of Heaven is in you ☮️🙏

[13ga]

disagree, K;

right now - i'm detached from everything. i'm detached from giving a ____

detached from caring about anything...

and soon i may be detached from this site.

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i'm most definitely not feeling healthier.

i'm absolutely not feeling happier.

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i'm seething in rage and fury and outrage.

and i don't even want to meditate - i want to STEW in my rage!!!!!

[Hb2003 in reply to 13ga]

meditation helps with a lot of things do something that you love

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👍👍👍☮️🧘🏻‍♀️🕉🙏

[Catsamaze ADAA Volunteer in reply to 13ga]

You’re right, 13ga. Not all detachment is a positive thing. My hope is that you feel better and that you stay with us....

[13ga in reply to Catsamaze]

catsamaze;

thank you sooo much for your reply, and your support....

i'm struggling at the moment... as of last night....

and i don't feel like i can even talk freely here....

so i really don't have an outlet....

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i don't want to abandon the site - there are some truly amazing, caring, wonderful people here.

i gotta figure out how to figure all my crap out....

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but tx again to you!

[Catsamaze ADAA Volunteer in reply to 13ga]

Of course, 13ga. One of the reasons this group exists is do that people CAN talk freely here, when in many cases it’s difficult to do in other places. Take some time to see if your feelings change. I hope they will and that you’ll stay with us. If not, know that you can always return and you’ll always be welcome here.....

[13ga in reply to Catsamaze]

tx sooo much catsamaze...

i mostly agree with everything you said...

on the single point of disagreement - i can't truly talk about things that fall within the site's 'rules of engagement'.

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there is a bar on this site - it seems whatever you say that upsets someone - no matter how well or respectfully you say it.... you can NOT speak about it directly - only in vague references at best. and that restricts me; and forces me to repress what i may truly want to say.

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it's a GREAT outlet for all things that you CAN talk about. but that's most definitley not everything. specifically - you can't talk about the 2 things that cause the greatest amount of misery and grief and general discontent in peoples lives.

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i've rc'd messages from admin that encourage me NOT to discuss things about the site publicly. so this is supposed to be a community. but there are definitly things this community can't talk about within itself. at least not publicly...

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i do REALLY appreciate everything you've said! there are truly some AMAZE-ing people here! 💜

[Catsamaze ADAA Volunteer in reply to 13ga]

I’ll look into those two things, 13ga. Thanks for your kind words

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Hi Rob. Anger, rage, competitiveness.... they are small problems but ego magnifies them. You can observe, don’t repress and be a witness. Rise to your awareness and that is all. Bring back to your Acceptance because it is powerful to release you from suffering and so as detachment☮️🙏

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An excellent quote KoKo, thank you.

Alicia xxx💜💜🌈

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Awee love you Alicia, one of the most enlightened person in body/mind/spirit🤗. Here’s to Joy always 🥰❤️❤️🌈🙏xxx

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Aww, thank you KoKo xxx💜💜🌈🌈🌹🌹