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Having a Narcissistic mother during my graduation

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Hello just wanted to share I fell into depression today.

I am graduating college next week. My narcissistic mother turned my graduation plans into her own plans & Tried to control everything she didn’t let me make any decisions and everything became a fight.

I got overwhelmed and

I’ve canceled going to my own plans as a boundary to keep away from my mother and I got attacked by my family. Now I’m the bad person in the situation & everyone sees me in a bad light. Now it’s about “look at how you made your mother feel”. It’s also all the guilt trips and statements of me overreacting

Mind you, I’m a grown adult and she makes me feel like a rebellious teenager

Spending my graduation alone.

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Best to you and cope your own way

Hi, this situation seems like you need some more support from outside the immediate family or is there one person who could sit with while you work through the issue If you are determined not to be alone, you have time to make the best of a seemingly bad situation. You know all the players best of all. Hoping the day turns out better than you think right now.👩‍🎓Congratulations on your graduation from me in Australia 🦘

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