just some advice brought to my mind in response to a post by another user and I felt inspired to make it into a post so more people can see and benefit from it.
If any of you struggle with feelings of worthlessness because of boys (or lack thereof) it is ok you are not alone I have never dated before (unless you count 1 kiss in 4th grade before any of us really knew anything) and may not for a while because I have had crushes who have broken me and I realized that sometimes the drama and trouble is not worth it. As for doing it that I may never do or only enough to have a child with my husband. Why sell yourself to somebody only to find out later it was not you that he loved it was your body. besides if something were to change to it he may not love you the same and may even leave or cheat. Sometimes the things everyone likes are only pretend like you; wait for someone real someone who can help you through your struggles even. P.S. I am 16 so things are subject to change for me but if it does I will still believe this but I will have just found the someone real (or at least I hope I would)
and something else I believe is that even though not everyone lasts, and not everyone is high school sweethearts, that does not mean the man was the wrong one because he was the right one for that time and for that lesson you learned and the next one is the right person for the new chapter and the new lesson and someday someone will be the right one to settle down with just don't rush it you may get mixed up somewhere.
My final advice is some girls date around yes, but they are called sluts so sadly this world is always out to get someone but that is not a cause to be sad and say then there is no point in life because the strongest people were not born strong they just survived the most trials and are serving more every day. your trials have a reason and that is to bring the diamond out from inside you. Everyone is a diamond in the rough waiting for the waters of life to shape them and allow them to shine their true inner beauty for the world to admire and treasure!