What should i do?

[_Sparkle_]

I have a "friend" and she's confuses tf out of me because she tells me she misses me or anything that relates to that and then stops texting me for a month or a week and then cones back. And then says the same thing like just recently she told me that she has made mistakes and wants us to go back to the way we was where we would make jokes and all that. So we talk for like 3 days and then the same thing happened where we stopped talking and im just honestly tired of this stupid pattern and i don't dare to tell her because i have constantly said what i felt and all that. And just last week she unfollow me and i don't understand why i don't even know what to do at this point.

[Hidden]

Manipulation - Lies - Leave her

Cat

😽

[_Sparkle_ in reply to Hidden]

Thank you that is exactly what i thought and i wanted to if others thought same and make sure im not thinking crazy or whatever

[Ricardo70]

Classic manipulation/controling behaviour. To prove it, don't reply to her text's for a couple of days and see what happens.It only takes a couple of mins to send a quick hi how are you text. True friends don't behave like that, your being treated like a commodity by being picked up and dropped when she feels like it.

Your obviously a kind, forgiving person and that's what she counting on. Some people do this to act out their controling behaviour and make themselves feel in control. She obviously not in control of a lot of things in her Life which is why her behaviour is so chaotic and unpredictable.

Put a stop to it NOW or you'll be caught up in the chaos.

I think you already know that her behaviour is unacceptable and are looking for confirmation from others to confirm what you already know, which is perfectly normal.

Protect yourself and look after YOU honey. xx

[_Sparkle_ in reply to Ricardo70]

Thanks soo much this is what i wanted to hear and look after yourself too ☺

[All_alone]

Block and walk away and dont look back. She is not worth it. You deserve to be treated well.

[Noquarter]

Time to roll out. Hard but possible.

[Hidden]

Maybe you could text (or call) her more?

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I would go with your instincts and inner authority what is best. I have a friend who is an Aquarius and we adore each other but she gets busy sometimes and forgets what's going on. It isn't manipulative. Just innocent and honestly forgetful. Could be either way. Use your intuition.